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I'm saying this , because I notice, many wants to please everyone.
1. It's not gonna work 2. You will be lying to yourself 3.You will be lying to others as well So please, be an individual, don't try to identify yourself with others who aren't you and think differently. It goes for both men and women, who all want to act like or even look like others, they choose role models or identifiy themselves with someone and behave in the same way. Being an individual is not a bad trait, as I have heard or you might have heard, that he or she is either a black sheep of a community or just don't fit in anywhere. It is really a blessing to have someone think for himself or herself and have opinions shaped on his/her own way, even if it might be not correct. What is this have to do with relationships and dating? Everything. You try to behave a certain way to act in a certain fashion and "acceptable" way, because you might think this is how it works or this is how you gonna manage or you have seen something in a soap opera or movie or heard it from a friend or family. You think, you must do certain things you have seen or heard from others in order to succeed in life and live a happy life or find someone, who would love you for who you are. The fact is, they can't love you for "who you are" if you aren't even yourself. So stop pretending to be something that you aren't and start beleiving yourself. And don't listen to what others might say , don't be so self-conscious about yourself. Be proud and love yourself who you are, your opinion of yourself counts first, everything else follows and not the other way. This is just something I wanted to say, it's just one of those times I felt like saying this. |
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I'm saying this , because I notice, many wants to please everyone. 1. It's not gonna work 2. You will be lying to yourself 3.You will be lying to others as well So please, be an individual, don't try to identify yourself with others who aren't you and think differently. It goes for both men and women, who all want to act like or even look like others, they choose role models or identifiy themselves with someone and behave in the same way. Being an individual is not a bad trait, as I have heard or you might have heard, that he or she is either a black sheep of a community or just don't fit in anywhere. It is really a blessing to have someone think for himself or herself and have opinions shaped on his/her own way, even if it might be not correct. What is this have to do with relationships and dating? Everything. You try to behave a certain way to act in a certain fashion and "acceptable" way, because you might think this is how it works or this is how you gonna manage or you have seen something in a soap opera or movie or heard it from a friend or family. You think, you must do certain things you have seen or heard from others in order to succeed in life and live a happy life or find someone, who would love you for who you are. The fact is, they can't love you for "who you are" if you aren't even yourself. So stop pretending to be something that you aren't and start beleiving yourself. And don't listen to what others might say , don't be so self-conscious about yourself. Be proud and love yourself who you are, your opinion of yourself counts first, everything else follows and not the other way. This is just something I wanted to say, it's just one of those times I felt like saying this.  point taken
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ahhhhhhhh now you know what it means to be a redneck
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Thank You, (((Atlantis)))
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Good thing I don't care about others opinion's.
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Thank You, (((Atlantis)))
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I'm saying this , because I notice, many wants to please everyone. 1. It's not gonna work 2. You will be lying to yourself 3.You will be lying to others as well So please, be an individual, don't try to identify yourself with others who aren't you and think differently. It goes for both men and women, who all want to act like or even look like others, they choose role models or identifiy themselves with someone and behave in the same way. Being an individual is not a bad trait, as I have heard or you might have heard, that he or she is either a black sheep of a community or just don't fit in anywhere. It is really a blessing to have someone think for himself or herself and have opinions shaped on his/her own way, even if it might be not correct. What is this have to do with relationships and dating? Everything. You try to behave a certain way to act in a certain fashion and "acceptable" way, because you might think this is how it works or this is how you gonna manage or you have seen something in a soap opera or movie or heard it from a friend or family. You think, you must do certain things you have seen or heard from others in order to succeed in life and live a happy life or find someone, who would love you for who you are. The fact is, they can't love you for "who you are" if you aren't even yourself. So stop pretending to be something that you aren't and start beleiving yourself. And don't listen to what others might say , don't be so self-conscious about yourself. Be proud and love yourself who you are, your opinion of yourself counts first, everything else follows and not the other way. This is just something I wanted to say, it's just one of those times I felt like saying this.  So I can no longer pretend to be strong-willed Scarlette O'Hara from 'Gone With The Wind'???  |
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 you mean people aren't who they seem to be?? of course, more importantly, you meant this in the real world too, yes? |
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You can't please everyone so you have got ot please yourself.
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you meant this in the real world too, yes? Well, if you want your online personality to be unique it'd better be an individual as well.  |
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screw everyone else..i do my own thing...thanks for the belated permission...
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Ricky Nelson
garden party I went to a garden party to reminisce with my old friends A chance to share old memories and play our songs again When I got to the garden party, they all knew my name No one recognized me, I didn't look the same CHORUS But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well. You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself People came from miles around, everyone was there Yoko brought her walrus, there was magic in the air 'n' over in the corner, much to my surprise Mr. Hughes hid in Dylan's shoes wearing his disguise CHORUS lott-in-dah-dah-dah, lot-in-dah-dah-dah Played them all the old songs, thought that's why they came No one heard the music, we didn't look the same I said hello to "Mary Lou", she belongs to me When I sang a song about a honky-tonk, it was time to leave CHORUS lot-dah-dah-dah (lot-dah-dah-dah) lot-in-dah-dah-dah Someone opened up a closet door and out stepped Johnny B. Goode Playing guitar like a-ringin' a bell and lookin' like he should If you gotta play at garden parties, I wish you a lotta luck But if memories were all I sang, I rather drive a truck CHORUS lot-dah-dah-dah (lot-dah-dah-dah) lot-in-dah-dah-dah 'n' it's all right now, learned my lesson well You see, ya can't please everyone, so you got to please yourself |
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I love myself. I just got out of the shower.
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F8ck the majority! There is no true majority!
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Trust me....do I look like I follow the norm and revel in fad or fashion or image? Pppppffffffftttttt!!!
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ive never really fit in with a big social group but thats because i love being dre. look diffrent and i act like myself and if people dont like it they can lump it
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Cartman said: You can do what you want to dooo, as long as its what everyone else wantss you tooo.
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Thu 06/04/09 12:18 PM
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Groove- Diharmonic Orchestra
My attempts to freeze the time Where failures But I have been close Intents I had you could divine And I'm aware Of boring those Who never really did approve My actual aims But though I dance With herds of goofy gnus of groove And make up peculiar names In trance If I stay in that distance There will be no admittance To another state of mind A plain of existance I'm watching plankton Creeping through the grass Safe from the whale That's what I guess Have not a clue Got no idea Doubt that they know What's happening here |
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when everyone is trying to be different. different becomes the new conformity
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when everyone is trying to be different. different becomes the new conformity Agreed. Tattoo anyone? 
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