I've often looked around at the mall, the cinema, local hang outs etc.

Why is it you always see some drop dead gorgeous chick with a creaton, or a guy who obviously couldn't care less?

I know millions of ppl ask this.
Likely these guys with the abs and confidence are better people, and I'm the bad guy who's judging...

But come one, I'm a nice guy, I'm kind caring, romantic, and with a sense of humor, that leaves most with wet undies.(take that as you will =P)I'm not rich but I'm 22 and earn 55K(nz$) a year. I'm smartly dressed, and borderline OCD (my room/lounge kitchen are spotless). I can't say I'm confident but many ppl i chat with online tell me im a nice guy.. Which is why I fear I'll die alone. (cue big emo tears)

I just want some one. Someone like all the unlikely characters that come into tv shows and date the fat ugly guy.. or FEZ (if u get that joke u'll understand me better).

Sometimes I wish I were an asshole and treated woman with no respect...

No more of this "woman date assholes and marry the nice guy years later" This site should make a pact to get nice guys and girls on the same wave length for once.

Sorry for the rant. I was stood up tonight, felt the need to vent my spleen to someone.. =P

Ah the internet, the only place you can feel alone, while surrounded by people.

-N8

The answer is simple

So you don't want responses.. You just wanted to vent... Ok, got it... Hope you feel better....

I missed another one...

women like a take charge kinda guy.here's what you do,the next time you go on a date,look deep into her eyes and say

"look here woman,i'm gonna stick it in your butt if you like it or not!"



she'll love you for it,trust me

See, most whimmin are attracted to the ass. I have a hypothesis about this: okay, most whimmin are the types that look in the mirror at their rears to either admire it or to criticize it (come on ladies, you know you've done it). Now, since a lot of them look at asses quite a bit, that is the reason for dating one, its already routine to look at them, but this way, no sore neck! But seriously though, no whimmin want chivalry right off the bat, and i know that there are whimmin that will disagree, but whimmin tend to admire bravado and straightforwardness in men. Whimmin want to instill chivalry in men when its at their convenience, or at least feel like they did or could. Whimmin want men that will treat them like dirt, because when you treat whimmin like dirt, there is no chance the man is faking it, and is honestly one of the most trustworthy people of all. You can always trust an asshole because he wont care what you feel or if it offends you. Most whimmin have trust issues, so that is another reason. Also, look at it like this: if you have two employees, and you have something that you need done, which would you pick? the man that is a "nice guy" and will take others into consideration, or the man that is an ass and doesnt care what he has to do in order to get things done? Now, im not saying that the whimmin are the "employers", that is how you need to see yourself when it comes to them. Its a good view, because, when a woman fills the position, and is done right, it can be very fulfilling, but if your "employee" screws you over to the point where you cant even look at her anymore, the employee is expendable and can be filled by another candidate. I know, that analogy is beautiful. Dont lose the "nice guy" qualities, just put them aside, and be aggressive and get that position filled! Bring out the nice guy stuff later.

I must feast again...

I gave this answer before, figure it is worth repeating.

Nice guys finish last because halfway through the race they start complaining to the ref that the bad guys are cheating...thus effectively never completing the race, you finish where you put yourself. I'm a loser, and I'm always the first place loser.

Stop tying your shoelaces together....and maybe then you can come second last instead...

"Nice" guys finish last because they whine and complain about being nice guys who finish last, instead of focusing on "winning."

Because they're the guys that call fouls during basketball games even though nobody touched them, they never score except by accident, miss layups when nobody is defending them, etcetera, etcetera.

The trick is to not play by the rules. When the next guy comes down the court, trip that MF. No blood, no foul!

;) This should sum it up.

cause women pretty much want the opposite of what they say. You don't have to be an asshole, but I think if you are to nice to a woman they either think you are being insincere, or worse they get all confident, dump you and look for someone better (who usually is just more of an asshole, has more money, etc. etc.) Sry 4 the run on sentence.

YAWNNNN!!! Don't get me started. Be assertive. Win or lose. No wishy washy whining. Succeed or fail. Quit putting yourself in a stereotype. Step out of the box of being a "Good man" and living in envy of the people who don't deserve that envy. Women do the same- living in vanity. Men in envy. Fix that and your problems are solved. Change now or be a whining crybaby forever. And that's not attractive.

"Why do losers or unlucky guys finish last" is the better way of saying than "Why nice guys finish last."

Complete bull. It is not that you guys are nice, or the fact that women prefer dating guys who are not nice to them. It is usually probably something else than just simply being nice.

And change your profile auckie. Eliminate sex as your interest (does not attract interest). Update your profile accordingly and honestly. The "I'm lazy- wanna know about me- go to my many other sites to know about me" is a see you later- bye. You want to attract not repel. You have a lot going for you. You're smart. Use it to your best ability. You are much more than this "whining vent". Move foreward.

You get branded "Nice guy" because you're "No fun". Learn to adjust to being "Fun guy". The nice guy monicker goes away.

because they are big pu$$ies with no balls


i wish i had a nickle for every "why do nice guys finish last?" threads...lol

It is funny to see guys having emo fits about why aren't there women who like them. I always see that it is probably because they don't know how to sell themselves - and are too eager to please and always wanting a mommy substitute and all.

Pathetic if you ask me. Most of them just haven't grown up and still think in a way where every women they see, they automatically worship them. Gotta use your head and understand the game man. They say they don't like that, but it is a lie in most cases.

No reason you can't be a "nice guy"
and,,,
aggressive
confident
considerate

You can be a total bad ass and still be a nice guy to her. They like because it shows you are a man, yet have a slight weakness for them,,,

You just gotta be who you are and stop worrying about who you think you are not!