What would be a good way to test your significant other to see if they really love you or if they are just saying that they do?

I think if you need to test them you already have problems. Either yours or theirs.

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i think asking them the same question in different kinds of ways works pretty good to see if their truthful. if they say they love you and give examples of what you did that makes them love you so much. if someone agrees with everything you say then ask them why they agree with that.

Keep it simple. Say you ran out of gas and, see if they help you out. I don't consider that a love test mind you. But, if they won't be there for you when you need them, toss them away.

This is nothing more than playing headgames and says nothing more than you are insecure and are probably not mature enough for a relationship.

i think in the course of a maturing relationship there are already 'tests', and how they are handled is what makes us fall in or out of love.

That's exactly what Mirror does with his posts!!!

love is a very delicate thing and anybody that loves you would understand why your asking these important questions. if someone gets defensive because of this then they really arnt very considerate of your feelings.

for some reason if one has to ask is because of insecurity, and that sounds like a personal problem. Why put that on someone else?

These days I am myself. If they love me they stay if they don't they go

There are (can't say it would be advertising) in the sea

Let us put this into perspective....

How far will they go for you.

Recently my Ex GF called me with a dilemma. Her 11 year old son locked himself out of his bedroom three days ago and oddly his bedroom has an entry style lock on it and I didn't have my pick set available. Now granted we are just friends and she is involved with someone else but who did she call at 10:30 PM asking for help???

I drove over, realized I was facing an entry lock, and had to take apart a window frame to get into the locked window. No windows were harmed in the escapade! I am that good. I wish I had my pick set but none the less I will go out of my way for friends. How many people would go even that far for a friend or a loved one???

I have gotten emergency calls at 2:00AM. When I was with my GF I bent over backwards for her so I don't think I had to prove squat to anyone. I have had GFs in the past try to test me like one who sicked her super hot friend on me trying to see if I would cheat. I turned her down even with offers to polish the torpedo so it was ready for launch coming from here during the party I was at.

After doing an engine switch on her car and doing an ass load of work on her mother's house at a quarter of my normal rate she dumped me with a lecture that I was not doing enough to prove myself to her.

Needless to say I felt like a tool. The problem with testing people is they do not like it and it can backfire on you. I would not take it well if a new GF tried testing me. I am very up front about me being a dog. Don't hang meat in front of a hungry dog. That is not smart if you want to keep it for yourself.


Dog School is in:

If a dog is hungry a dog will hunt.

ALSO

Old Dogs do not like Obedience training.
Young dogs will put up with it if they think it will get them a bone.
Tests qualify as Obedience training.

If you do this to an old dog you had better have a bone for him if he succeeds and be ready to be bitten if he fails!

I don't want to have to test my love over time it should be obvious if they do indeed love me

If it was true love,you would know....You should not have to test it.

Get to know them first.