What are your opinions on interracial dating?

For some reason, I am really attracted to guys outside my race. I am a Nigerian American female, and my experience has been the majority of guys who have shown interest in me are black. I have nothing against black males, I respect them and I have great friendships with many of them, but I just see them as brothers.

My dilema is, most of the guys I am attracted to are white. Many black guys don't understand that, I guess can't help who I am attracted to.

My question is for the white males. Are you ever attracted to black women? Would you be open to dating them? If so, what could she do to make you feel comfortable enough to ask her out?

Don't worry. You're not the only one. I'm not attracted to black men either. I'm more of a diverse chica. It will be kinda hard to find someone, but the guy will come along that will satisfy your preference. Best wishes to ya.

i only date caucasian men as well but dont really have a problem. I dont know if that is because i am half white. Its just a preference for me and who i am attracted to.

Im all for it I am the same way I am more interested in women from races other than my own. I know I am way to old for you but if we were the same age I would definately try to date you
Im a romantic at heart and think any guys your age would be fools to not ask you out. Just my opinion very nice

I'm not attracted to black men either

i only found interest with 1 black woman i met lifeguarding,we always chatted etc.were great freinds in everyway (not sexual )she marred another good freind of mine lol i really dont go by color,its all bout attitude, maybe it the attitudes that attract you,

I agree. I also am too old for any of you. But if I was younger, I would ask you out.


When you are in love with a lady, her race or color doesn`t matter. We were all created by the same creator.

Thanks for the feedback everyone. It's nice to know there are people who understand my point of view.

Let's hope not

Me? I am attracted to anyone who doesn't become when they look at me

Am I ever attracted to black women? I have always been attracted to black women or women of color in general and so much so the last two women I was in a relationship with, one for over two years and the other for a year and a half were African American and Native American/Latina. The reason we did not stay together had absolutely nothing to do with what color our skin was what so ever. In both relationships we realized it was not going to work out because of major personal differences and extenuating circumstances.
I am still open to dating black women or women of color. And as far as what you could you could do to make him feel comfortable to ask you out I think is embodied in the sentence I just wrote before this one. You see us white guys who have spent most of our lives with people who for the most part look like us are constantly faced with the dilemma of using the appropriate wording so as not offend you but more importantly give you the impression by the terminology we use that we have an issue about race or something.
I think the truth of the matter is that the vast majority of white guys will struggle like hell wondering if what they just said or wrote was acceptable enough by black women so as not to look or sound like a real dope if nothing else. So if you really want to make him feel more comfortable, try to give him the benefit of doubt when it comes to answering the question if he is attracted to black women. If he is anything like me he will probably fumble around like hell and constantly be questioning himself whether he should have used the term black women or African American woman, and other terms we struggle so much with in today’s world.
All in all just try and keep in mind for as little as you may know about what it’s like to grow up white, he will probably be just as unknowing about what it’s like to grow up black. I will just give you one instance from my own experience, when I found out how long a good set of braids took to craft onto a black women’s head I started noticing braids as more of a work of art than just a hair doo.
Personally, I can say without any doubt that I find black women some of the most beautiful women I have ever seen, and I don’t think I am alone. It’s just like you say for yourself, there is just something I find more attractive and that is just who I am. Ah Well!!

yummy distant past though, lol.

as always, the personality is first, and today safe sex, but hot chocolate is delicious!

ive been attracted to black women for as long as i remember. i find it really flattering that someone can like another person based on color.

i was supposed to meet a black woman from this site over the weekend but i never could get in touch with her again to see which motel she was at

I can honestly say that black women are some of the most beautiful women in the world and I am very attracted to them.

I have a (beautiful) friend who is from Nigeria that I've found very attractive in many ways... I think the times I felt uncomfortable about her race were mainly when she "talked black" or when she acted like black Americans are oppressed by the evil white majority. Other than that, I personally just couldn't see myself having children with her... that would be really weird for me.

My recommendation as far as the comfort level goes... just act feminine and try not to bring up the race subject too often. If a guy doesn't see you as being different, you don't need to make him feel like he's different.

I don't discriminate in anything, including love, color, creed, religion - if there is chemistry there is chemistry, end of story.

I don't see why people think its such a big deal... I know there are people like that, but I just don't personally understand it. Best of luck in your search, there are definitely like minded individuals out there.

Hmm
Interesting

Color never atrracted me

Unless it was a Picasso