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Topic: Argumentativeness
Thoughtfulthug Joined Tue 05/05/09 Posts: 514	Sat 05/30/09 02:48 PM
The question is that if you are on a date with someone, and that person gave you the impression that he or she is very argumentative, would you go on further to continue to date that person?

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sat 05/30/09 02:49 PM
Nope, I prefer the 'yes dear' type myself

Thoughtfulthug Joined Tue 05/05/09 Posts: 514	Sat 05/30/09 02:54 PM Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sat 05/30/09 02:54 PM
Nope, I prefer the 'yes dear' type myself You must have dated a lot of liars? or perhaps desparate men?

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sat 05/30/09 02:55 PM
Heyyy!!! Dating me isn't necessarily a sign of desparation. Is it? Can someone - anyone - back me up on this?

prisoner Joined Tue 01/06/09 Posts: 5129	Sat 05/30/09 02:56 PM
i love opinionated women who can hold their own in a battle of wits with me. i don't like the mousey-type. be seeing you

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sat 05/30/09 02:57 PM
Heyyy!!! Dating me isn't necessarily a sign of desparation. Is it? Can someone - anyone - back me up on this? yes dear

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sat 05/30/09 02:57 PM
papersmile....I have dated those before....but I tend to like a challenge. I love a good debate...not an arguement though. I find it VERY attractive when someone speaks their mind and not just say what I want to hear...although there are 3 words I love to hear from a man...."YOU ARE RIGHT"

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sat 05/30/09 02:58 PM
Haha my personal knight. have i told you how much i love you lately?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 05/30/09 02:58 PM
If he's already arguing on the first date, chances are good that I won't be interested in a second date.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 05/30/09 02:59 PM
papersmile....I have dated those before....but I tend to like a challenge. I love a good debate...not an arguement though. I find it VERY attractive when someone speaks their mind and not just say what I want to hear...although there are 3 words I love to hear from a man...."YOU ARE RIGHT" Debating is fine. Speaking your mind is fine. Arguing on the first date? Probably not the best sign.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sat 05/30/09 03:00 PM
I disagree! Dont tell me what to do!

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sat 05/30/09 03:01 PM
I disagree! Dont tell me what to do! no hon...YOU ARE WRONG!!!!!

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sat 05/30/09 03:01 PM
I disagree! Dont tell me what to do! no hon...YOU ARE WRONG!!!!!

Thoughtfulthug Joined Tue 05/05/09 Posts: 514	Sat 05/30/09 03:02 PM
Ok. Let me make this clear. What I mean by arguing is what it actually means. Arguing only by disagreeing in the debate about something.

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Sat 05/30/09 03:04 PM
papersmile....I have dated those before....but I tend to like a challenge. I love a good debate...not an arguement though. I find it VERY attractive when someone speaks their mind and not just say what I want to hear...although there are 3 words I love to hear from a man...."YOU ARE RIGHT" I so totally agree

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sat 05/30/09 03:04 PM
Ok. Let me make this clear. What I mean by arguing is what it actually means. Arguing only by disagreeing in the debate about something. I dont know, debating doesnt usually makeme go for seconds on a first date either.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sat 05/30/09 03:07 PM
I like a debate if it is respectful. If it is an arguement and whining about something that it's a big deal??? NOPE. nit picking isn't my idea of fun. but a debate to stimulae the brain can be good. and joking around as well. I went out with a guy that would argue just as a joke and I would do it back to him. we laughed the whole time. although we weren't meant for dating...he is one of my good friends to this day.

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Sat 05/30/09 03:08 PM
I would make statements that were obviously wrong....watch them argue....stick to what I said....and watch them throw a fit.

Thoughtfulthug Joined Tue 05/05/09 Posts: 514	Sat 05/30/09 03:09 PM Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sat 05/30/09 03:09 PM
You are quite right yellowrose. It has to be something where two people together find it stimulating and fun to do. Not all people like to argue.

BMWboy4u Joined Thu 11/06/08 Posts: 119	Sat 05/30/09 03:09 PM
Sarcasim is a lost art form..some people just can't take a joke. As for being arguementive..my rule is: say what you mean.. mean what you say.. and don't say it mean..