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Topic: If trust is broken...
agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Tue 05/26/09 10:49 AM
Do you try to trust this same person again? Or Do you move on? And thanks for your input.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Tue 05/26/09 10:50 AM
I think I'd have to move on. Trust is a BIG thing with me. Once you blow it, it's almost impossible for me to 'forgive and forget'. That's just me thought. Good luck in whatever your situation

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Tue 05/26/09 10:50 AM
I say I would, I act like I do, but deep down inside no and that will end up sabotaging anything.

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 05/26/09 10:52 AM
It takes a long time to earn my trust...so if it's intentionally broken, then it's usually gone for good...

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 05/26/09 10:53 AM
Im so gone......nothing will bring me back!!!

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Tue 05/26/09 10:54 AM
Move on w/a quickness.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Tue 05/26/09 10:54 AM Edited by shoesmonkey on Tue 05/26/09 10:56 AM
It takes a long time to earn my trust...so if it's intentionally broken, then it's usually gone for good... Ditto for me. P.S. Why do some ppl think that trust should be given on a silver platter..........untill it's broken? Would you trust a total stranger? No, ofcourse not.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Tue 05/26/09 10:55 AM
ummmmmm, maybe it can be fixed but it takes ten times longer to fix a betrayed trust than it did to build it in the first place

agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Tue 05/26/09 10:55 AM
thanks......... I am moving on.... it was not an infideltiy issue. But is was a series of lies. Now that he is butsted. I find it so hard to trust him. I dont carry this mistrust to other reationships. People start with a blank slate. But I do watch for red flags. Thanks all

silly Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 2789	Tue 05/26/09 10:56 AM
U just move on.I tried to trust someone again after he lost my trust but it didn't work so now I'm just moving on.Once trust is lost its lost for good.

agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Tue 05/26/09 10:56 AM
wow quiet good point. thanks

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Tue 05/26/09 10:56 AM
You, you've blown it all skyhigh, by telling me a lie, without a reason why, our love had wings to fly, but you've blown it all skyhigh!!!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Tue 05/26/09 10:58 AM
thanks......... I am moving on.... it was not an infideltiy issue. But is was a series of lies. Now that he is butsted. I find it so hard to trust him. I dont carry this mistrust to other reationships. People start with a blank slate. But I do watch for red flags. Thanks all Not me man. I've been through too much crap to give anybody a clean slate. You want my trust????????????????????? Earn it!

agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Tue 05/26/09 11:00 AM
Trust is alwasy earned. But you cannot blame otehrs for what one did. A nutral playgound is best in any reationship.

AGoodGuy1026 Joined Wed 04/22/09 Posts: 1333	Tue 05/26/09 11:02 AM
I say I would, I act like I do, but deep down inside no and that will end up sabotaging anything. well said... ditto...

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Tue 05/26/09 11:03 AM
Trust is alwasy earned. But you cannot blame otehrs for what one did. A nutral playgound is best in any reationship. Neutral............hmmmmmmmmmmmmm, good point and, taken. OK, thank's. I'll mull that over. It's still hard for me but, a good point none the less.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 05/26/09 11:03 AM
I am so outa there!

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Tue 05/26/09 11:08 AM
I moved on.

ReddBeans Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 6930	Tue 05/26/09 11:18 AM
Broken trust is a very hard thing to repair. I tend to move on.

agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Tue 05/26/09 11:21 AM
Thank you all.. guys and gals............ And shoe this is for you