Topic: Am i doin the right thing?
parinay91's photo
Mon 05/25/09 04:12 AM
life was a hell for me before quite a few months as my girl friend dumped me after four years of relationship. she was my first love and i loved her more than anything in this world. she knew this very well but even then left me for a guy! all her promises, her feelings were just a lie! all his was in me till last 10 days.

guess what? then i met a girl, actually not just met. i mean she lived with me in my hostel itself but i came to know her closely for the very first time. it was 15th of may and we fell in love with each other. she knew me and whatever happened with me and i knew that she already has a boy friend and she is committed to him, even then i don't know why i got drawned towards herand she too felt the same thing for me. it has been 10 days now and we are really happy with each other. but the problem is this i don't know will this last or not. i don't want to leave her. i just want to be with her all the time. but then she has a boy friend and even then she's with me. i just can't understand that am i doin the right thing? please help me into this! i am really confused that wheather to continue this relation or not?
COZ I DON'T WANNA BE DUMPED ANYMORE.

catwoman96's photo
Mon 05/25/09 04:13 AM
i think you are setting yourself up for failure to be with somebody that is invovlved with someone else.flowerforyou

MahanMahan's photo
Mon 05/25/09 04:16 AM
Zindigani, mihrabani...

Meditate my friend and you will see everything more clearly.

happy

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Mon 05/25/09 04:30 AM
I have to agree with Catwoman, you are setting yourself up for a BIG fall. And you are with someone who is cheating. Is that what you really want, a relationship that is based on a lie?

I think you're sad and lonely about your recent breakup and are using this new relationship as a means to avoid dealing with that. It's called a rebound and they rarely, if ever, work out in the long run. You need some "you" time, time to look inside, reflect, and deal with your emotions before you'll be ready for a new relationship.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Mon 05/25/09 05:04 AM
A person that will cheat on someone else for you will cheat on you for someone else. It's inevitable. They have no respect for commitment. Have enough respect for yourself to dump her now.