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Topic: Bad relationships
Sweetwater2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 421	Fri 05/22/09 03:35 PM
How many people had a relationship, and tried there very best in that relationship, and just keep getting hurt in it?

Spirograph Joined Mon 09/15/08 Posts: 7011	Fri 05/22/09 03:41 PM
several times. i had a very bad track record before i met erik. a very very bad track record..

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Fri 05/22/09 03:41 PM
I would venture to guess that number is pretty high.

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Fri 05/22/09 03:42 PM
How many people had a relationship, and tried there very best in that relationship, and just keep getting hurt in it? Always hurt in the end, yes. But as for trying my best - looking back, I've always been able to find things I could have done differently.

Urg04es Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 1411	Fri 05/22/09 03:43 PM
I have been divorced for 11 years but when I was married I did everything humanly possible to make it work. This unfortunately included forgiving an affair with my best friend at the time, verbal, and physical abuse. Thank God I have become a strong woman now that does not allow weak people like that to run my life. There is hope even from the lowest of places to rise and become what you want and deserve!

The1WhoLuvsU Joined Sun 07/20/08 Posts: 270	Fri 05/22/09 03:46 PM
When that happens its time for a breakup.

Sweetwater2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 421	Fri 05/22/09 03:47 PM
I understand this I just went through it, I learned alot from past relationships, and did every thing I could to make it work.

Sweetwater2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 421	Fri 05/22/09 03:48 PM
My head knows this but my heart dont and I am kind of a romantic guy.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 05/22/09 03:49 PM
I imagine at some point everyone has....some more than others. I know I have

Urg04es Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 1411	Fri 05/22/09 03:50 PM
Love yourself first and foremost.....others will follow.

The1WhoLuvsU Joined Sun 07/20/08 Posts: 270	Fri 05/22/09 03:51 PM
Was it an abusive relationship?

Sweetwater2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 421	Fri 05/22/09 03:53 PM
Yes alcoholism, thought she could overcome this.

Sweetwater2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 421	Fri 05/22/09 03:57 PM
She would drink and sleep with other men , party all nite ect, but when sobor she was the greatest person you could ever know.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 05/22/09 03:57 PM
Yes alcoholism, thought she could overcome this. Been there as well, more than once. Which I will not get involved with a drinker again.

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Fri 05/22/09 04:03 PM
She would drink and sleep with other men , party all nite ect, but when sobor she was the greatest person you could ever know. When she realizes you gave a damn ...Hope you have moved on by then...Cause you might fall for it again because she knows you do...Kinda like a puppet

Sweetwater2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 421	Fri 05/22/09 04:06 PM
That is true, she knows me, wish I could get a cold heart, but I cant.

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Fri 05/22/09 04:12 PM
That is true, she knows me, wish I could get a cold heart, but I cant. Just find another woman who would take your kind heart...She dont seem to want it right now...Go get'em tiger

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Fri 05/22/09 04:31 PM
I imagine at some point everyone has....some more than others. I know I have Agreed...& then I start to wonder if someone feels that way about me? We ALL can't ALWAYS be right...sigh Live & learn is all we can do & hope to not make the same mistakes again...

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Fri 05/22/09 04:41 PM
I think anyone who says no hasn't been around the block.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Fri 05/22/09 04:42 PM
sigh... been there.