Topic: Sigh
romeo1975's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:49 PM
Well i had a blind date last night, and unlike previous ones she actually showed up, but i dont know what to think, we were to meet today but she got called into work(or so she says) is this a blow off??

no photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:50 PM
Maybe she really did get called in to work..

msmyka's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:51 PM
Well how do you feel the date went?

romeo1975's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:51 PM
it went okay, i mean we talked and we laughed and she sent me a text saying that she had fun, but i am just a little skeptical

epicsoldier's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:52 PM
it's always good to give her the benefit of the doubt.
of course, it's always a possibility that she's blowing you off,
but don't let that thought fully take over.

i'd say to let things play out.
talk to her casually for a bit and ask if she wants to hang out again.

redhead44613's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:52 PM
call her back an set up to meet again tomorrow.. its friday. good luck

romeo1975's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:54 PM

call her back an set up to meet again tomorrow.. its friday. good luck
wish i could, but i have to go back to work myself tomorrow

msmyka's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:54 PM
My philosophy on dating is that you should only put in as much effort as the other person is. If you don't see her making any real effort to communicate with you to hang out again then I'd just forget about it. Sometimes people do get busy but a text doesnt take much effort.

redhead44613's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:54 PM


call her back an set up to meet again tomorrow.. its friday. good luck
wish i could, but i have to go back to work myself tomorrow
ok then your next day off

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:56 PM

it went okay, i mean we talked and we laughed and she sent me a text saying that she had fun, but i am just a little skeptical


Ya got no reason to be skeptical dude. You're just acting paranoid. Get back in touch with her and arrange another get together.

TxsSun's photo
Thu 05/21/09 02:57 PM
Don't be skeptical. THAT is what will chase her off. Keep an open mind and stay calm. Just Breathe!

(wish I would have followed this one myself)

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Thu 05/21/09 03:41 PM

Well i had a blind date last night, and unlike previous ones she actually showed up, but i dont know what to think, we were to meet today but she got called into work(or so she says) is this a blow off??


Dear (_____),
I had a great time last night and thought about you today. Too bad you got called in to work. That must stink. Hey, if you want, why don't you give me a call (or email) if you're not too tired. If you are tired, call me later. Maybe we can have coffee or (____).

*offer void where prohibited by law or lack of interest

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/21/09 08:06 PM
I would give her the benefit of the doubt this time. If it starts to become a pattern, then that should tell you something. Good Luck.