joyce sometimes just takes one visit though to know its not going to
work...

you are right buttons

thank you-

nurjoyce,

I think once you meet this person you will have found a great guy who is
what he says he is. This is my 2 cents.

I had talked and was getting along with a guy everyday for about 2 weeks
online and on the phone then we decided to meet and when we met there
was just no chemistry. We both agreed that we would be friends but
nothing more.

Meet him then decide the next step.

Could be the begining stages of love .

Or more perhaps that excitement of talking with someone you enjoy, and
feeling exilerated by it.


What ever it is enjoy the ride the tingley feelings so don't come along
often..

And yes smart people are scared....the what ifs....etc......

Norjoyce, If YOU feel he is someone that you COULD love, then he
would be someone you should meet.
Anybody can write words to impress or up-set?? So WORDS will, or SHOULD
"NEVER" be enough to go by!!
And NO-ONE can say "I LOVE YOU" BEFORE MEETING THE OTHER!
Them three words should only be said in person to THAT person.
Many people here have FELT love from someone esle but then found only
LIKE THEM, after meeting them?
It might be because of the other being a bad kisser, bad lover, bad
breath,lol,or not being truthful about their looks or size, or Money
they make, home, LIFE....
You need to go slow and FEEL HIM first, his heart, his emotions, his
REAL INNER THOUGHTS!
LOVE is NEVER, just waiting around a corner, its always WHERE your NOT
looking!
There has been LOVE found on this site, but NOT as many as BAD HOOK-UPS!
Let your eyes see his soul,,,,THEN, see him as the man that he REALLY
is, and YOU WILL KNOW "HIM"!!!!
Good luck and may you both find HAPPINESS and TRUE FEELINGS!!!!!

I agree with everything iam4u said. IMHO, real love is hard to find and
even harder to hold onto once you've found it, so take it slow and enjoy
the ride. :)

SheNerd