the tall redhead from sex and the city is getting married i think which is irrelevant. her relationship with a woman is irrelevant . what confused me was that when i saw the pic looked very masculine... this a collection of thoughts ive had for a while. i am strait and there is no appeal for me to be with a woman that looks like a man. if i was gay i cant understand dating another guy who looks like a woman and vice versa if i was a lesbian.
some way unrelated is the behaviors of a homosexual. i feel that sometimes that their behaviors aren't natural...... out of 100 gay men what are the offs that 70 have a naturally higher voice than usual......... i feel that there is a pressure to behave in a certain way. there is just a lot of gay individuals i have met that in public/large groups they are loud high voice dramatic hypersexual... then when its a really small group at someones spot a lot of that is non existent.
finally if a woman is born and they feel that they should have been a man.. then i understand dressing and morphing ones behaviors and appearance to resemble a man but a woman is a woman who likes other women then resembling/behaving like the stereotypical guy doesn't make sense to me. excluding work environments who would someone hide their sexuality...

is it because of tv and movies? in this world people are expected to behave in certain ways... i am not considered black by some because i don't dress/ talk the part which is crazy.
im less of a man cause i dotn care about football or baseball?


ultimately i dont care how anyone behaves as long as its who they really are

Lesbians have boobies too. Don't knock it....

Uhhhhhh bro...straight people are confusing enough..who the hell knows what the gays are thinking?....seriously...someone out there has sex with Rosie O'Donnel....

i like Chris Noth better on Law And Order. be seeing you

You have to remember in Human uality, gender, gender roles, desire, etc. are all separate things.

BTW, Chris Noth on L&O is Da Man!!!

Chris Noth is freaking tall, hot sexy stuff. He is Mr. Big. Yummers!!

EXACTLY
EXACTLY

Sounds like someone is on the fence

I didn't need that thought going through my head.. Thanks krupa you spoiled my day...

NO!! he's Mike Logan. be seeing you

And Mike Logan would wear plaid ties. He does care what people think!

....Now visuallize yourself munching her clam while she is barking instructions at you...

You're welcome...

Rosanne Barr used to turn tricks, people paid to hit that

I gotta go barf!

People come in all shapes and sizes. Love doesn't dictate how a person looks.

Funny.... Maybe it sounds like someone who doesn't comprehend mot being true to yourself......
Or perhaps if I question someone having sex with a dog its because I perfer cats???

And a bit of confusion on being gay but being with someone who appears like the opposite sex... Granted I'm approaching this as a strait man using my logic but its still confusing to me

confusion is from the bad one so if it is good it is all clear no confusion.... this is not against homosexuals it is just a true thing

If you are a man that likes women, and a woman prefers to be more masculine than feminine, she might be attracted to a more feminine woman. If you are macho, you might be attracted to a more feminine woman..

If a woman really wants to be a man, she will go through the operation and become one, but that doesn't necessarily mean HE (after the operation) will then want to be with a woman. I used to know a gay woman that fell in love with a man who was becoming a woman, once it happened, they still remained together. it confused me all to hell, so much so that I just couldn't think about it. But I got to know them so well that after a short while I just didn't think about any of it, I was relating to two human beings that loved each other, that's it.

I'm gay and even I don't understand it all. I am attracted to women, though my preference is toward the tom boy type, not male looking.

There are so many combinations in life, yet for centuries we pretended that only one thing existed, male and female, no one can understand them all. But again you should be able to answer your own questions. Just as you are a straight man and I am sure have a preference in what type of women you like, so do gays.

As for the behavior, I understand the confusion, truck driving dyke's used to scare me as badly as very effeminate men who are loud and boisterous. But as I got older I realized it was my hang up not theirs. They are perfectly happy with who they are, once I got over myself I then related to them as people and didn't notice the differences, so don't worry about it and don't judge it. Why they act like that is not my business. I used to think why do they act that way too... I no longer care, I accept them as they are, period.

I think more and more gays aren't as obvious as they used to be, but again no big deal, the hang up is yours not theirs. Does that help?

Enjoy life ofei1, you will learn many new things in life if you let go of the nonsense of worrying about behaviors. People are people underneath that and they all want the same things.

what boo said