I know I just have to give you trouble whenever you say something so silly...

If you have the money for a lawyer

They can do an amnio test to determine paternity while she's still pregnant to determine if in fact the child is yours. With that as proof you can go to family court while she's still pregnant and set up your rights for visitation, child support etc.

If nothing else, staying together for the sake of the child usually if not ever works out. Talk to a lawyer usually you can get the first visit for free, and they can go over with you what steps you can can take to prevent her from doing that do you. If you wait too long and she disappears than it'll be a bigger headache as opposed to having done the prelimenary work ahead of time. If nothing else most family courts have a phone number or assistant that can answer some of your questions as well.

Good Luck

we were broken up when i started this and i have not edited this SORRY. i have only been on again the last few days SORRY

well thanks anyways guys im just scared of never seeing my kid dont know what to do so i came on here to ask people i dont know.

do you have any proof she is psycho
and to let you know when a woman is pg there body and attitude changes (its like a hormone change) so your dealing with that issue
but it also sounds like she doesnt want to be in the relationship
and for visitation rights what you could do is contact legal aid and see whats your chances on as getting custody of the child..

First of all as the father of the child the courts can and will give you visitation rights to be in your child's life . Especially if you want to. As for child support the courts will order you to pay that as well. Married or not.... And as for her disappearing ? clue here get her social security number before you split. You or anyone else " courts" will be able to track her down and force her to give you visitation. No I would never stay in a relationship "just because of the child" That will only bring misery to both of you and the child. Threats from her can also be used if you can get it verified by someone else or tape recorded. goes a long way sometimes.

My advice is to get a lawyer and start proceedings for you to establish your rights as the biological father. Before she does anything else. good luck

ya ya its been going on before this so its not just that. and that does not give her the right to lock me out of my own place. she does not work because she is lazy i pay everythng and am there for her EVERYDAY. she got mad at me once because she thought i was hittin on my aunt ... lol thats CRAZY

when i was with my ex hubby(bf at the time) i got pg with my son
he wanted to get married and i wanted to wait
we got married 1/2months after my son was born.

our marriage didnt even last a yr.. i mean we didnt celebrate our 1st annerversary. for there were problems and i kicked him out 4 differnt times..

i felt we got married just because of our son.. that you dont do.. you would find that as a big mistake..


even if your not married, you dont stay in a relationship for the child... as for the misery, oh!! yea i was miserable and you dont want to feel that.. the child can feel your pain

And after smacking the mom around, I do hope that baby is okay.

grow up i typed the wrong word. your life must be boring

pot meet kettle

Calm down Mix, she had no way of knowing.. It was a valid concern you have to admit....

man every time i start a post someone HAS to say somethin. i must be an ass lol

You're not an azz... She is a very nice person, just saw what you posted and well that concerns women and some men.. I missed it.. However, there's no need to get upset, you made a typo that's all.. It's all good.. Take the advice that will help you and use it to do what you need to do...

man every time i start a post someone HAS to say somethin. i must be an ass lol

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