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Maybe if you all knew what I was even asking you'd actually understand. I wasn't asking you to give up your recent family for something new. I was asking you to consider the fact that what if there was more than one person out there for you. I have been hurt more than any of you could possibly imagine and it was just a topic I threw out there, hoping to get people to open their minds to the "what ifs?" It wasn't an easy question, no. It deserved thought. But it also deserved an open-minded answer instead of, "well my soulmate would be the man I'm with" or "why would I even consider leaving my family" or "wouldn't that be cheating"? Can't you think outside the box for one single moment? Yes, you'll get hurt. Yes, we've all been hurt. But what if all of that hurt were worth it in the end? And then again, what if it wasn't? I was just trying to get opinions on a topic without trying to make it shallow. That's all. Here is where the definition of open minded needs to be understood.... Open mined means that you are open to listen to others thoughts NOT that you agree with them and go off on a tangent of "what if's" and fantasies.... We read what you wrote and then wrote what we thought/felt, etc.... being closed minded is not giving us credit for even reading and responding... |
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I am ne thing but closed minded lady....you don't even know me....
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Maybe if you all knew what I was even asking you'd actually understand. I wasn't asking you to give up your recent family for something new. I was asking you to consider the fact that what if there was more than one person out there for you. I have been hurt more than any of you could possibly imagine and it was just a topic I threw out there, hoping to get people to open their minds to the "what ifs?" It wasn't an easy question, no. It deserved thought. But it also deserved an open-minded answer instead of, "well my soulmate would be the man I'm with" or "why would I even consider leaving my family" or "wouldn't that be cheating"? Can't you think outside the box for one single moment? Yes, you'll get hurt. Yes, we've all been hurt. But what if all of that hurt were worth it in the end? And then again, what if it wasn't? I was just trying to get opinions on a topic without trying to make it shallow. That's all. Here is where the definition of open minded needs to be understood.... Open mined means that you are open to listen to others thoughts NOT that you agree with them and go off on a tangent of "what if's" and fantasies.... We read what you wrote and then wrote what we thought/felt, etc.... being closed minded is not giving us credit for even reading and responding... That's BS and I want to... -reads what she typed- ehemmm,,, yeah, what she said... 
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Edited by
YouAndImake1
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Sat 05/16/09 08:47 PM
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I am ne thing but closed minded lady....you don't even know me....
-sigh- relax and read youngin',,, relax better yet -throws in old people slogan- Wait until you get older... 
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some soulmates are more compatible than others...
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I am ne thing but closed minded lady....you don't even know me....
Why are you getting upset? I was pointing out the definitions so that you would see where we are coming from and not take it to heart.. No one was knocking your OP... They were just giving their thoughts that's what threads are for... Why is it you are getting upset and making accussations rather than opening your mind to our thoughts? The glass house analogy comes to mind here... |
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your ossified cantankerous predispositions are hanging out! 
tuck them back in! omg! 
No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  
I will be who I be no matter what you young whipper snappers say!!!!!!!!!! And yes.... some soulmates are more compatible than others...
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Maybe if you all knew what I was even asking you'd actually understand. I wasn't asking you to give up your recent family for something new. I was asking you to consider the fact that what if there was more than one person out there for you. I have been hurt more than any of you could possibly imagine and it was just a topic I threw out there, hoping to get people to open their minds to the "what ifs?" It wasn't an easy question, no. It deserved thought. But it also deserved an open-minded answer instead of, "well my soulmate would be the man I'm with" or "why would I even consider leaving my family" or "wouldn't that be cheating"? Can't you think outside the box for one single moment? Yes, you'll get hurt. Yes, we've all been hurt. But what if all of that hurt were worth it in the end? And then again, what if it wasn't? I was just trying to get opinions on a topic without trying to make it shallow. That's all. 
I suspect we all got the essence of your OP...we responded... darlinghearted child...tuck YOUR defensive stance back in... it isnt flattering.. 
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Edited by
Bi_CurizGrl
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Sat 05/16/09 08:53 PM
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Sat 05/16/09 08:58 PM
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aaaagh!
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no i would stay
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I need my glasses I thought that said "darlinghead"...
 
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Edited by
Winx
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Sat 05/16/09 09:00 PM
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Maybe if you all knew what I was even asking you'd actually understand. I wasn't asking you to give up your recent family for something new. I was asking you to consider the fact that what if there was more than one person out there for you. I have been hurt more than any of you could possibly imagine and it was just a topic I threw out there, hoping to get people to open their minds to the "what ifs?" It wasn't an easy question, no. It deserved thought. But it also deserved an open-minded answer instead of, "well my soulmate would be the man I'm with" or "why would I even consider leaving my family" or "wouldn't that be cheating"? Can't you think outside the box for one single moment? Yes, you'll get hurt. Yes, we've all been hurt. But what if all of that hurt were worth it in the end? And then again, what if it wasn't? I was just trying to get opinions on a topic without trying to make it shallow. That's all.
I'm the one that said this was cheating: "One was more of a good friend or a good husband and the other was the sweetest lover who just made you tingle all over when he touched you or even looked at you?" It IS cheating to me! And then you say that I'm not being open minded? I answered it honestly. |
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A happy relationship consist of a man and woman.
not to men and a woman or the other way around. if you aint ready to settle down,dont till you are ready. |
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you can keep what you have behind door number 1, and as you can see -opens door #2, nothing but goats behind door number 2.....
so... will it be door #1 or door #3? hmmm? hmmmmm? |
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i've made more enemies than friends thanks to this damn post....i think that's y i left diary sites a long time ago cuz everyone's a freakin' asshole these days...
BTW, i'm more adult than any of you people on here. I live in an 80 year old body and been through more than any of you will ever experience, and quite frankly it's people like you that make me hate this f*cking world. 
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thanks for sharing that
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Edited by
OrangeCat
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Sat 05/16/09 09:09 PM
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dont start a topic asking a question
if you dont wanna hear the answers |
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Edited by
IndnPrncs
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Sat 05/16/09 09:06 PM
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holy cow
That's what we get for having an opinion and answering a post.. That's it!!! I quit... I'm going to run off and join the circus b/c I hate this freakin' world and all the honest people in it... I want to find me some lying azzholes that will tell me what i want to here.. "this statement in no way reflects the opinion of this site and was not intended to offend those in the circus... No midgets were harmed during the making of this statement"... |
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