Topic: When you are looking at profiles, what turns you off?
papersmile's photo
Sat 05/16/09 02:11 PM

So is telling right off the bat that you are widowed considered being negative? Legit question.


Most definitely not

I think it helps avoid the 'so why did you break up with your ex?' questions that inevitably follow after talking with a man at length. flowerforyou

elwoodsully's photo
Sat 05/16/09 02:30 PM
A pic like this:


Tootsweet13's photo
Sat 05/16/09 02:31 PM
Crap, I thought I took that pic out of my profile before you saw it!

Mystique42's photo
Sat 05/16/09 02:54 PM

A pic like this:




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no photo
Sat 05/16/09 02:55 PM

For me,

1. Bad spelling
2. Bare-chested photos
3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.


"I don't know what to write here."

"I like going out or staying in."

"I love my friends and family."

"I'm easy going and laid back."

"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)

MISPLACED APOSTROPHES!!!

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.




papersmile's photo
Sat 05/16/09 02:58 PM
Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.


Well you could always ask to be set up.

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:03 PM

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.


Well you could always ask to be set up.


Tried that, but never got a reply.

Actually, outside of moderator stuff, I don't think I've ever gotten a reply when I wrote to someone first here. So I just don't even bother anymore.


no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:08 PM



"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)



Those are the sneaky little bastards that come out at night and make the hubcaps eventually come off the car

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:13 PM


For me,

1. Bad spelling
2. Bare-chested photos
3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.


"I don't know what to write here."

"I like going out or staying in."

"I love my friends and family."

"I'm easy going and laid back."

"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)

MISPLACED APOSTROPHES!!!

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.




:laughing: Well I was going to say something but as usual Lex has said it all lol:laughing:

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:26 PM
I am not looking any longer...

but when i was...a pic of a man with a scowl would turn me on my heels to run....AND you would be suprised just how many men will put up a pic that could easily be mistook for the face of a serial killer.

all i got to say is SMILE dammitt!!! HA!bigsmile

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:28 PM
I saw a girl who was 21, currently pregnant, and had photos of her showing off her pregnant belly. I found that to be bothersome.

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:32 PM



For me,

1. Bad spelling
2. Bare-chested photos
3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.


"I don't know what to write here."

"I like going out or staying in."

"I love my friends and family."

"I'm easy going and laid back."

"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)

MISPLACED APOSTROPHES!!!

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.

:laughing: Well I was going to say something but as usual Lex has said it all lol:laughing:


My ultimate goal in life is to be the Andy Rooney of Mingle2. You would really think I could've come up with a little better goal than that, but no!

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:33 PM




For me,

1. Bad spelling
2. Bare-chested photos
3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.


"I don't know what to write here."

"I like going out or staying in."

"I love my friends and family."

"I'm easy going and laid back."

"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)

MISPLACED APOSTROPHES!!!

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.

:laughing: Well I was going to say something but as usual Lex has said it all lol:laughing:


My ultimate goal in life is to be the Andy Rooney of Mingle2. You would really think I could've come up with a little better goal than that, but no!

:laughing:

drinker waving Hows it going my friend ? lol

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:36 PM
"Seeking man for relationship."

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:39 PM





For me,

1. Bad spelling
2. Bare-chested photos
3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.


"I don't know what to write here."

"I like going out or staying in."

"I love my friends and family."

"I'm easy going and laid back."

"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)

MISPLACED APOSTROPHES!!!

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.

:laughing: Well I was going to say something but as usual Lex has said it all lol:laughing:


My ultimate goal in life is to be the Andy Rooney of Mingle2. You would really think I could've come up with a little better goal than that, but no!

:laughing:

drinker waving Hows it going my friend ? lol


I'm sort of decompressing (decomposing?) from finally having finished my next book -- still have a few edits to throw in, but I did the Introduction and Acknowledgements yesterday, so once I have the cover finalized and PDFed, it'll be ready to go....!

But -- as to the topic at hand --

I forgot to mention earlier -- another huge turn-off is the profile that says "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask."

And "My friend told me about this site, but I'm not going to write anything until I see if it's worth it."

For further details on bad profiles (with accompanying scathing commentary), see the "One Glorious Profile" thread, now on a monitor screen near you.






no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:42 PM






For me,

1. Bad spelling
2. Bare-chested photos
3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.


"I don't know what to write here."

"I like going out or staying in."

"I love my friends and family."

"I'm easy going and laid back."

"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)

MISPLACED APOSTROPHES!!!

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.

:laughing: Well I was going to say something but as usual Lex has said it all lol:laughing:


My ultimate goal in life is to be the Andy Rooney of Mingle2. You would really think I could've come up with a little better goal than that, but no!

:laughing:

drinker waving Hows it going my friend ? lol


I'm sort of decompressing (decomposing?) from finally having finished my next book -- still have a few edits to throw in, but I did the Introduction and Acknowledgements yesterday, so once I have the cover finalized and PDFed, it'll be ready to go....!

But -- as to the topic at hand --

I forgot to mention earlier -- another huge turn-off is the profile that says "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask."

And "My friend told me about this site, but I'm not going to write anything until I see if it's worth it."

For further details on bad profiles (with accompanying scathing commentary), see the "One Glorious Profile" thread, now on a monitor screen near you.






Congrats!!! I wish you the best of luck my friend!

slaphead :laughing: I remember that thread lol

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:44 PM







For me,

1. Bad spelling
2. Bare-chested photos
3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.


"I don't know what to write here."

"I like going out or staying in."

"I love my friends and family."

"I'm easy going and laid back."

"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)

MISPLACED APOSTROPHES!!!

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.

:laughing: Well I was going to say something but as usual Lex has said it all lol:laughing:


My ultimate goal in life is to be the Andy Rooney of Mingle2. You would really think I could've come up with a little better goal than that, but no!

:laughing:

drinker waving Hows it going my friend ? lol


I'm sort of decompressing (decomposing?) from finally having finished my next book -- still have a few edits to throw in, but I did the Introduction and Acknowledgements yesterday, so once I have the cover finalized and PDFed, it'll be ready to go....!

But -- as to the topic at hand --

I forgot to mention earlier -- another huge turn-off is the profile that says "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask."

And "My friend told me about this site, but I'm not going to write anything until I see if it's worth it."

For further details on bad profiles (with accompanying scathing commentary), see the "One Glorious Profile" thread, now on a monitor screen near you.






Congrats!!! I wish you the best of luck my friend!

slaphead :laughing: I remember that thread lol



It's still up and running! -- and on part 4 now!

Trust me, there is NO shortage of material on the site from which those samples are taken!!


no photo
Sat 05/16/09 03:46 PM








For me,

1. Bad spelling
2. Bare-chested photos
3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.


"I don't know what to write here."

"I like going out or staying in."

"I love my friends and family."

"I'm easy going and laid back."

"Tired of dating loosers." (Not sure what those are.)

MISPLACED APOSTROPHES!!!

Pictures with more than one person where they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Every time, the one I like is the "unnamed co-person," not the one who actually made the profile.

:laughing: Well I was going to say something but as usual Lex has said it all lol:laughing:


My ultimate goal in life is to be the Andy Rooney of Mingle2. You would really think I could've come up with a little better goal than that, but no!

:laughing:

drinker waving Hows it going my friend ? lol


I'm sort of decompressing (decomposing?) from finally having finished my next book -- still have a few edits to throw in, but I did the Introduction and Acknowledgements yesterday, so once I have the cover finalized and PDFed, it'll be ready to go....!

But -- as to the topic at hand --

I forgot to mention earlier -- another huge turn-off is the profile that says "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask."

And "My friend told me about this site, but I'm not going to write anything until I see if it's worth it."

For further details on bad profiles (with accompanying scathing commentary), see the "One Glorious Profile" thread, now on a monitor screen near you.






Congrats!!! I wish you the best of luck my friend!

slaphead :laughing: I remember that thread lol



It's still up and running! -- and on part 4 now!

Trust me, there is NO shortage of material on the site from which those samples are taken!!


:laughing:

Thoughtfulthug's photo
Sat 05/16/09 09:05 PM
I think it cheesy when a guy place "looking for an intimate encounter" in their profile. So lame! Not that I am interested in men in that way, but just curious to see my competition. :D

I also find some of the women like to quote comments in the forum which give me the impression that they are desperate. Quite pathetic!

Winx's photo
Sat 05/16/09 09:09 PM
No answer, no answer, no answer, no answer.