Topic: When you are looking at profiles, what turns you off?
feistybaby's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:03 PM


Hard for me to answer this because I don't actively do searches on here. And I usually only look at profiles of forum posters. And I am much more watchful of what people say in the forums as to what turns me off about someone than their profile. Profiles can be misleading because most people aren't writers and most people are uncomfortable just talking about themselves unless it is in the course of conversation. So I tend to give people a break and just ask questions if I am interested.
you are way to sweet.:smile:



Thank you~ flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:03 PM


Right. I want to grow old WITH somebody, not BECAUSE of them.



Well said!


Oh THAT was a good one!

silly's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:05 PM
Edited by silly on Sat 05/16/09 12:08 PM
Initimate encounter.
To long a profile.
Old pics.
No pic at all
Whinning about ex.we all have them.lol
Men way to young e-mailing me.Not intersted in 20,30,40 year olds.
married and looking-real turn off

Tootsweet13's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:08 PM

And I am much more watchful of what people say in the forums as to what turns me off about someone than their profile.


I really agree with this, fiestybaby! When men talk all mean or sexual in the forums...ick.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:09 PM
ppl acutally read the profiles...huh huh huh



auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:10 PM
I agree with you and Destiny also. I wasn't looking but, I was much more prone to notice what someone said in the forums than just searching through the profiles. I was never here for that.

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Sat 05/16/09 12:12 PM


And I am much more watchful of what people say in the forums as to what turns me off about someone than their profile.


I really agree with this, fiestybaby! When men talk all mean or sexual in the forums...ick.


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Tootsweet13's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:15 PM



And I am much more watchful of what people say in the forums as to what turns me off about someone than their profile.


I really agree with this, fiestybaby! When men talk all mean or sexual in the forums...ick.


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ICK!!!


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MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:16 PM
ill bathroom mirror pics ill

Mr_Music's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:18 PM

ill bathroom mirror pics ill


Yup, The "myspace" pics.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:21 PM

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Sat 05/16/09 12:23 PM
The list grows longer on an almost daily basis.... Fact is, I'm not sure there is anything on a profile that would turn me on. I need to get to know the person behind the words.

Savitar's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:23 PM
wow , i am so screwed on this profile thingy .oh well , least i have the whole green is so sexy thing going for me

auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:24 PM

The list grows longer on an almost daily basis.... Fact is, I'm not sure there is anything on a profile that would turn me on. I need to get to know the person behind the words.



Always the voice of reason! flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:25 PM


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auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:31 PM

They could always just follow MY lead and just put "Yup". ohwell



Okay laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:36 PM

ill bathroom mirror pics ill


Especially when the bathroom mirror is dirty, or you can see the shower curtain in the background. :tongue:

auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:46 PM
Edited by auburngirl on Sat 05/16/09 12:47 PM
Well I just got perved by a guy who likes to spank and this is what it said.

Mid 40's Male enjoying life but missing that special little spark to make it all complete. Busy balanced lifestyle. Need a very open minded and special kinky girl to help me explore lifes adventures.


Oh..and he's looking for intimate encounter. :laughing: :laughing: Ladies, the line forms HERE!

s1owhand's photo
Sat 05/16/09 12:48 PM
i look for some interesting spark. and out of just plain old idle curiousity. i find it fascinating sometimes to read what people have to write and look at the pics they choose for themselves. i like to guess at what they might be like.

sometimes - when someone keeps making interesting or amusing comments in a way that really gets my attention - i'll check back in on their profile to see what their status is, or if their pic looks vaguely familiar or i never saw that pic before etc....like to see how their journey is evolving (or not) here.

very few things turn me off actually. sometimes it is just kind of boring. other times there are really very amusing comments or pics. i like to see who is on their friends list as a friends of friends kind of thing. i think i may have a slightly unusual perspective.

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Sat 05/16/09 12:51 PM


The list grows longer on an almost daily basis.... Fact is, I'm not sure there is anything on a profile that would turn me on. I need to get to know the person behind the words.



Always the voice of reason! flowerforyou



You can live with someone for years and not know them. You can talk to people online for months and still be strangers. People that want something from you will generally put their best face forward in this medium. Merely seeing words and photos on a page does not give me a sense of attraction any more.