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That is my fear. I would love the "fairy tale". You know the man that loves you for who you are. You love him and you are best of friends, white picket fence...yada yada. but that doesnt add up, you said you dont love him. you may be "in love with the idea of being in love" I realize I don't love him. I was just saying that was what I would like to find with someone. |
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has he asked you to marry him?
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too much heart ache..dont put urself in that situation..and if u are try to get out of it
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Marry someone even if you weren't in love with them?  If they were hot
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  I NEED LUV 
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I would rather live alone then to marry someone for convenience... I would be miserable and it will show you can not hide that no matter how hard you try.
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if she was really rich...lol
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 only if she had tons of money be seeing you
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Marry someone even if you weren't in love with them? If they were hot
 WANNA GET MARRIED? 
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It takes a minimum of six months to get a divorce in most cases. Why would I waste me time and his, to even consider marring him in the first place if I already know I don't love him? I would rather be alone.
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As everyone has said, no. Not only would you be miserable, you'd be preventing him from possibly finding someone who WOULD love him and be happy to be with him.
"Settling" should never be part of a marriage. |
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has he asked you to marry him? Yes and I told him all the reasons we shouldn't. He has an answer for everything. Says he has loved me and my kids for years but would never do anything to destroy my marriage. Now that my husband walked out and left me for someone else and the divorce has been final for a year that it was time to start a new life. |
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well he is probably right about starting a new life, but you need to do that yourself. sounds like he wants to start your life for you.
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I told him he deserves someone that truly loves him. He says I will learn to in time, that everything else is there.
Guess I'm just tired of trying to do everything myself and this would be an easy out. Not fair to him I know. The kids are pushing hard. They really like him and think it would be great. |
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it wouldnt be an "out", it would be the way in to a life or misery for you. you'd always wonder, what if i had found someone i really love, would life be even better.
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un NO..................
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Marry someone even if you weren't in love with them? If they were hot
WANNA GET MARRIED?
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it wouldnt be an "out", it would be the way in to a life or misery for you. you'd always wonder, what if i had found someone i really love, would life be even better. Seriously, I have 3 kids and I take care of my Mom and Grandma. No man wants to deal with all that. Besides, I'm not sure there are any good ones left. Maybe I'm just in a pity party mood. I know there are lots of people out there dealing with much worse. |
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love will come to you when you least expect it, when your not looking, it will just happen.
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I told him he deserves someone that truly loves him. He says I will learn to in time, that everything else is there. Guess I'm just tired of trying to do everything myself and this would be an easy out. Not fair to him I know. The kids are pushing hard. They really like him and think it would be great. You would be hurting him in the long run, IMO. |
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