Anybody else have the problem where people message you, you have everything listed on your profile, you begin talking, and than they ask you a question that is clearly written on your profile, and then they say like for me... Oh sorry i dont date smokers? Why do we even write profiles! Is this just a picture dating site or what? Oooo i like your picture we should talk.... I live 500 miles away, but i would have known that had i read the profile!!! ARGH!!!!

Actually, you've stumbled on a great way to do some weeding out. You haven't been here that long. You'll start hearing from those who read the profile, and you'll see the difference.


Good Luck, Bro, and Welcome!

Thanks man! Nice to know that not everyone is like that on this site, just super frustrating and a waste of time!

Sure do & I still can't get anyone local to message me

My problem is people read my profile, but they don't understand I will be burying them under a really nice stoop...I mean, this isn't some kind of junk stoop with weeds and a broken wooden deck...it is a really nice stoop...

no i don't read profiles cause there r some on this site that just ramble on with trash that we will never c again on a galloping horse.

hahaha, i have had some almost locals message me, only to talk for a while and then they find out i smoke... lol. As for the stoop, i cant believe they dont go for that, if its a really nice stoop, they should be checking in left and right! HAHAHAA

Yeah, it can be frustrating. My profile says in the first sentence,"I don't do mutual match". And, I still get atleast one a month. It is a filter you can use. I do love the ones who have no smoking etc. on thier mailing restrictions. Why the heck are you emailing me then!?

It's kinda like playboy around here, everyone looks at the pictures lol.

So true

I don't have time to read all that crap people write on their profiles

I just look at the pictures and then make snap judgements about the people based on their pics

Sigh, I guess, my 12 pack abs arn't that great afterall.

It's the Mcdonalds of dating.Fast food my man!

Yeah it is all pretty rediculous, i understand u may not have time to read the whole profile.. but still there is a little conclusion at the bottom.. .wants kids... relegion... smokes... drinks.. lol people look for what u want or ur wasting a lot of peoples times! PICs are great, obviously you want to be attracted to the person, but the habbits and traits are also important as well.. if your looking for sex a pic is fine, if ur looking for a relationship.. well there is a little more than a pic needed to start that!

Very True...but you know...when you see someone that catches your eye...you'll stop and look more indepth...but sometimes people just wanna flirt.Good luck in your search man..wish you well!

Thanks sal, good luck to you as well man! Thanks for taking time and posting!

Relax

I love reading the pros

Some r very interesting

Some
Make ya think:

What the he'll rock did they come out from under!!

My profile is 1400 pages long.

I figured that would weed out the bad ones, scare them away.

Now I get e-mails from people saying "The writing in your profile is too intimidating."

So I guess it's working!

How do you ready a profile?