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She is just another woman at this point, and I wouldn't read too much into the situation. Ask her out again, it you make set plans great, if she has this or that or something else in the way you are definitely 'Plan B' and its time to move on.
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Tue 05/12/09 06:40 PM
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 there is no league. sshhhhh....it's a secret. don't tell the nice guys™! 
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She is just another woman at this point, and I wouldn't read too much into the situation. Ask her out again, it you make set plans great, if she has this or that or something else in the way you are definitely 'Plan B' and its time to move on. Oh, we have a date. It is on thursday. She will probably also come to the party my friends and I are throwing on Friday. My band should be playing there as well. Then she leaves town on Saturday. Again, you are probably right. I don't know why but even though I am outgoing I get really shy and nervous around girls I like. |
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I met this girl a few weeks ago through a mutual college club. We talked at a couple of events and at the last one I invited her to a party that my friend was throwing (we invited just about everyone in the club too). She made me a drink at the party, which was pretty strong and my friend jokingly said she wanted to get me drunk and I said I wish (her friend heard this and laughed so I am assuming she heard about this comment later). The next day I saw her and asked for her number (after she gave it to me she gave me a little elbow nudge which I took to be very flirty) So I call her to make a date and ask her to dinner saying i know it is a bad time due to finals and she is getting kicked out the dorm right after them. She agrees and says we can work something out. I call her 5 days later to ask when her last final is and we agree on that night and she says she will call me when she finishes her final. I think she is into me, but I still have some doubts. The first call when I asked her she didnt answer her phone and called me back a couple hours later. She didn't sound herself even before I asked her out. I am not sure if she was nervous or not. When I first said I wanted to take her to dinner she asked "with other people?" which threw me off. Am I getting mixed signals? she is into you but she had someone else over at the time you called this made her nervous also she is unsure about you and your motives. next time you call just say, YOU, ME, DINNER tonight i WILL PICK YOU UP AT 7 DOLL 
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too early to tell. she gave you her number so she was at least interested enough in you to want to talk again. the "with other people?" comment could mean that she was 1) joking, 2) feels more comfortable with a group until she gets to know you better, or 3) wants to make sure that she has one-on-one time... this requires much much much more analysis. or none at all. just ask her what she'd like! talk to her on the phone! it's fun to get to know someone new whether it turns into LOOOOOOVE  or not! hope it turns out to be LOOOOOOOVE!   Yea, you and everyone else is right. I should just relax, but she is one of those "I thought she was too cute and possibly out of my league" girls and so I am pumped about it and nervous at the same time. lol Don't EVER think that a woman is out of your league!!!!!!! |
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Sounds good then if it happens.
Yeah, there is no 'league' this isn't a team sport. Good luck to you.
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too early to tell. she gave you her number so she was at least interested enough in you to want to talk again. the "with other people?" comment could mean that she was 1) joking, 2) feels more comfortable with a group until she gets to know you better, or 3) wants to make sure that she has one-on-one time... this requires much much much more analysis. or none at all. just ask her what she'd like! talk to her on the phone! it's fun to get to know someone new whether it turns into LOOOOOOVE or not! hope it turns out to be LOOOOOOOVE! Yea, you and everyone else is right. I should just relax, but she is one of those "I thought she was too cute and possibly out of my league" girls and so I am pumped about it and nervous at the same time. lol Don't EVER think that a woman is out of your league!!!!!!!  So true! Your on a roll! I need to start listening to you more often
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Thanks everyone. My cousin assured me she was interested. (female cousin of course) She said a girl will give you her number if she is not interested just because she might want to see if u will call. The point that she called me back shows interest (according to my cousin) and it is confirmed by her taking my call the second time knowing it would be about the date. Not to mention she could have easily said she had no time between finals and going out of town for the summer. But it is nice to get other peoples opinions so thanks again.
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