Topic: Genuinely longing to Love & be loved
Lovinglywealthy's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:34 PM

Currently struggling financially so am undesired by most as far as a relationship is concerned.
Ofcourse desired for fun and flings but longing for real love..
should a broke fella give up on love and just play the field as that seems all I seem to be wanted for?????flowerforyou :smile:
Have changed profile as it seems that Love and long term when your struggling isnt possible.. I am hoping to be proved wrong for a business minded lovely woman will open a door and give me a ladder to climb..
happy

dawnyhi's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:35 PM
Edited by dawnyhi on Tue 05/12/09 01:36 PM
money has nothing to do with love... when you find it it gives you hope and rises you up and anything is possible... if you had money maybe you would be too greedy anywho and that would be the center of the relationship... love can not be baught...


good luck to you


and those abes certainly may help in the love departmentlove

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:36 PM
That's why I gave up!

JasmineInglewood's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:36 PM
when you're struggling, you weed out the gold diggers who only want to mooch some of your money and you're left with those who are also looking for love as well.

(and those who just want sex)

dawnyhi's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:37 PM

That's why I gave up!




no don't give up you are the most charming on here and famous endorser for mutual matches...

Winx's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:39 PM


Currently struggling financially so am undesired by most as far as a relationship is concerned.
Ofcourse desired for fun and flings but longing for real love..
should a broke fella give up on love and just play the field as that seems all I seem to be wanted for?????flowerforyou :smile:
Have changed profile as it seems that Love and long term when your struggling isnt possible.. I am hoping to be proved wrong for a business minded lovely woman will open a door and give me a ladder to climb..
happy


A lot of people are struggling financially right now.

There are plenty of free activities to do. The sky's the limit on free activities in the summer.

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:41 PM
After reading your profile I am actually confused. Are you looking for someone to spend time with or an investor. Kind of got mixed messages.

In this economy, everyone is struggling financially and starting a new business is risky. I would focus on what you are looking for in a woman and not so much on your financial means or your business prospects. Just my two, good luck.


no photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:57 PM
Women are EXPENSIVE. Good Luck, dude. drinker

feistybaby's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:59 PM
Edited by feistybaby on Tue 05/12/09 02:57 PM

After reading your profile I am actually confused. Are you looking for someone to spend time with or an investor. Kind of got mixed messages.

In this economy, everyone is struggling financially and starting a new business is risky. I would focus on what you are looking for in a woman and not so much on your financial means or your business prospects. Just my two, good luck.





I am confused as well. #1 If you are financially unstable why do you feel you have the right to demand that the woman you seek be that way? Are you looking for someone to invest in your business or just support you financially while you get said business off the ground?

Dan99's photo
Tue 05/12/09 02:01 PM
There is being honest, and then there is advertising yourself as being broke. You dont need to tell people that from the outset. Its not anyones business to know until a relationship is starting to develop.

no photo
Tue 05/12/09 02:03 PM
struggling financially? but your profile says "lovinglywealthy"

mixed signals?

Monier's photo
Tue 05/12/09 02:03 PM
Edited by Monier on Tue 05/12/09 02:04 PM
I think you're really looking for a woman that will push you forward and encourage your striving for success.

Hey, times are tough but not for long. If your financial situation is making you worry about potential mates, try building meaningful friendships with the opposite sex instead. You never know what can out of that and it's quite fullfilling at the same time.

no photo
Tue 05/12/09 02:05 PM
No Baby, You should never give up. I live in Pearl, MS. and would love the opportunity to get to know you. Broke or not. Money doesn't make a guy. if you want to give me a yell.

Wes:heart:

no photo
Tue 05/12/09 02:06 PM

No Baby, You should never give up. I live in Pearl, MS. and would love the opportunity to get to know you. Broke or not. Money doesn't make a guy.if you want to give me a yell.

Wes:heart:


hi sailor

new in town?

Winx's photo
Tue 05/12/09 02:22 PM

struggling financially? but your profile says "lovinglywealthy"

mixed signals?


I was reading that as wealthy with love.

Diva624's photo
Tue 05/12/09 02:36 PM
Money doesnt matter! It comes and goes. If what you're really looking for is something lasting, then stop thinking so little of yourself. Real romance has nothing to do with cash flow...know what I mean?
I think that men go into their head and start thinking "I don't have this" or "I haven't accomplished this" and it turns into "What worthy woman would want me?"
Give yourself a break, everyone is struggling right now. Concentrate on all the wonderful things about yourself, knowing that you're working on what's lacking, and you will manifest the right relationship.
I wish you the best of luck.

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 05/12/09 02:39 PM
Very nice first post Diva. Welcome.flowerforyou