So if two people really like eachother .............then WHY should DISTANCE matter? Shoot I luv Miss TINA 2 & GYPSY & I'm gonna go see them one of these days!

I've been in one that was more than 2100 miles distance between us. I would only advise that caution be exercised in doing so if for a "relationship"

Oh i forgot MIRROR he's special too!

What happened?

You can come and see me anytime. Oh!!! I may be in cali soon sista!!!

REALLY? I will give you my number........U BETTA CALL ME!

I have no issue with distance. I am perfectly capable of being faithful to someone I only get to see on a limited basis, and if the visiting works well I am also capable of dialing 1-800-uhaul. I don't want to limit myself from what could be my perfect match because they don't live near. Anything worth having is worth the effort it takes to attain it. And what's the worst that could happen, I end up with a new friend instead of a new love interest.

That's a GOOD one!

romantically?-- it's attractive because 'distance makes the heart grow fonder' and when visits do happen, they are intense - short (usually) and full of happy, because there's not time at all for bullpuckey... BUT if you think about it the danger is that they can be like an affair.... long periods of longing and imagination building thoughts and "crushing", short yet intense visits...

Once the unspoken "goal" is met and both are in the same place after a long distance courtship - the same dangers are there -- day to day life may not be able to measure up to the intensity/longing of the long distance relationship.

It happened to me (all be it 18 years ago)... long distance for a year... finally move in together, lasted 3 months... then it was over...

I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm not saying it does not work... but it can have it's challenges....

Also, some people have different needs for how often they want to be with their "partner" - I for one, like partner time... just weekends are not often enough seeing each other, 2-3 nights per week suit me better (that's just me personally)....

No LDR's

25K later and the Oregon state police asking me if she had permission to use my car (after I had already bought her one), I realized she was a user... there were signs before that though that I didn't acknowledge, all my fault...

Ya been down that road myself.......there are lotsa users out there! ONLINE & OFFLINEW we all make Mistakes!

My sentiments exactly.

cuz im tryin to get laid tonight.

NEED SUM HELP THERE BABY!

i thought i was in a relationship. long distance one she's suppose to be in rehab. shw said she contact me soon that was 9 week's ago she never did contact me i don't know what to do.

uuummm Youv'e got to be kidding? Find someone else!

she alway's said she love me. i love her but your right thank's debbie

Well acturally it may be that she cannot contact anyone for a certain length of time.......did u think about that? Anyways you should moveon sweety

I've been in three LDRs over the years. 250miles, 1,000miles, and 2,000miles more or less. They were good relationships but didn't end in marriage for reasons that had nothing to do with the distance.