Topic: good guys in bad relationships
alchmey2009's photo
Sun 05/10/09 07:54 PM
hey all
i'm curious about this whole scenario i've been in my entire life
and maybe someone can answer a question i've had for a long time.
what is it about descent god fearing men that causes them to wind up in dead end relationships?
i just don't get it
i do things any descent man would do but always end up being cheated on. or if not cheated on then just broken up with. well if someone has an idea what iti am doing wrong please let me know.

bastet126's photo
Sun 05/10/09 07:57 PM
oops wrong room! but, i might pull up a chair and see what responses roll in smokin

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 05/10/09 07:57 PM
Sounds like you just have not found the right woman yet, maybe you are being too nice, which leaves you open to be walked on.

auburngirl's photo
Sun 05/10/09 07:59 PM
God fearing men don't ALWAYS end up in dead end relationships just like non God fearing men don't. You can't make a blanket statement like that but I do see what you mean. Sometimes, they actually GET the girl.

May777's photo
Sun 05/10/09 08:07 PM
what`s that saying,..doing the same thing and expecting different results,..

gotta look at your patterns,.

what type of woman are you attracted to,..what things do your ex`s have in common,,..


no photo
Sun 05/10/09 08:08 PM
so you're saying that nice guys finish ummmm...

last?

no photo
Sun 05/10/09 08:09 PM
I have had enough of these deep questions for the day..... look at yourself and why you let it happen.. simple enough. that will be 1 lolipop for my opinion. thank you.

May777's photo
Sun 05/10/09 08:12 PM

hey all
i'm curious about this whole scenario i've been in my entire life
and maybe someone can answer a question i've had for a long time.
what is it about descent god fearing men that causes them to wind up in dead end relationships?
i just don't get it
i do things any descent man would do but always end up being cheated on. or if not cheated on then just broken up with. well if someone has an idea what iti am doing wrong please let me know.


keep asking,.. cause God would not have given you the question if you did not already have the answer,...

May777's photo
Sun 05/10/09 08:15 PM
or is it,..keep asking,.cause you would not have the question,.if God had not given you the answer already,.... tongue2

alchmey2009's photo
Sun 05/10/09 09:22 PM
i think you might be right
they do have one or two things in common at best.
but thanks for the advice i think i might use this to develop a new method.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 05/10/09 11:32 PM

i think you might be right
they do have one or two things in common at best.
but thanks for the advice i think i might use this to develop a new method.


Wanna know what the problem is???

...develop a new method.



THAT. Right there. That is the problem.

There is no " method " to finding the right person.

If you try working at a " method ", then the person you are really looking for is gonna pass right by you.