Topic: Sending a kiss
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Sun 05/10/09 11:24 AM
I received a kiss from someone. How do I send one to another?

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Sun 05/10/09 11:55 AM
Just sent ya one.

adj4u's photo
Sun 05/10/09 12:22 PM
go to their profile click on nudge them

RArleneM's photo
Sun 05/10/09 05:33 PM
Hi,

I'm new here...what's up with the nudges, kisses, etc? I don't want to offend anyone by using them incorrectly, nor encourage someone I'm not interested in by returning theirs.

Any help would be most appreciated.

Thanx!

metalwing's photo
Sun 05/10/09 05:41 PM

Hi,

I'm new here...what's up with the nudges, kisses, etc? I don't want to offend anyone by using them incorrectly, nor encourage someone I'm not interested in by returning theirs.

Any help would be most appreciated.

Thanx!


Welcome to mingle. Don't be afraid of offending anyone. Nudge and kiss away.

RArleneM's photo
Sun 05/10/09 05:44 PM
Thanx for your quick reply, metalwing...but I want to understand what they are! biggrin

ladywolf9653's photo
Sun 05/10/09 05:45 PM

Thanx for your quick reply, metalwing...but I want to understand what they are! biggrin


A nudge, regardless of which one you choose, is simply a way to say "hello" or indicate interest w/o sending an email. Can be between friends or sent to someone you're interested in getting to know further :)

Hope that helps, and welcome to the site!

RArleneM's photo
Sun 05/10/09 06:20 PM
Hi Ladywolf,

Thank you for the welcome. Yes, that makes sense. One more question. I did some Mutual Matching. Will those guys I indicated interest in get e-mail notification?

Thanx again!

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Sun 05/10/09 06:22 PM
Yeah Ladywolf, tell her what happens next with that mutual match.

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Sun 05/10/09 06:50 PM

Hi Ladywolf,

Thank you for the welcome. Yes, that makes sense. One more question. I did some Mutual Matching. Will those guys I indicated interest in get e-mail notification?

Thanx again!


They'll get an email indicating that someone has said they were interested in meeting them, but not who. When they click their Mutual Match, your photo/profile synopsis will show up, among others.

Personally, I recommend the forums over the Mutual Match :) You'll meet more people and get a feel for who they are, rather than basing interest on photo and profile alone.

Good luck!

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Sun 05/10/09 06:51 PM

Yeah Ladywolf, tell her what happens next with that mutual match.


What does PATS always say, lol? Happiness is just a mouse click away?

RArleneM's photo
Sun 05/10/09 07:04 PM
Ah, I get the point, Ladywolf and Michiganman....use AFTER the introductions are made. :)

Well, I'm enjoying this...can we have an ordinary conversation on this thread, or must we move to another?

Thanx!

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Sun 05/10/09 07:08 PM
Mutual Match is notorious for it's poor success rate.
Example.
You match with someone, you may or may not have spoken to each other before. After the match, nothing. No reply to email or nudges.
Or they are 1000 miles away
Or they are a fake
Or a player
Or a flake.
The list is endless.

But some folks do have luck with it.

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Sun 05/10/09 07:09 PM
The mods prefer chit chat to be in the Coffee House, Bars & Chit Chat forums, lol. And feel free to jump in on any of the threads that seem interesting to you....the forum members don't seem to bite (much) unless you ask :)

charles's photo
Mon 05/11/09 06:01 PM
You can read more about Nudges here, SweetNSassyCutie:
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/202606

Good luck!