Sorry your life is that sad that you cant enjoy the finer things in life. a man is there to be used. not the other way around...... try it you may like it. in life you have to enjoy and take risks.... i had on last night and cant remember wat his face looked like but can remember everything else it only human nature.... are you virgin



Well I think that it is fair for her to at least try to understand from her perspective, and possibly explore what she mean by this stance.

To me she has not say anything about the man was decieved at anyway by her using him. Some people don't mind being used by someone as long as the exchange is mutual from the both side of the party. You can say that in most cases in casual sex, one side usually play the role as the user while the other play the role of the used. So as long as one does not give false pretense to the other that there will be more than just sex afterward: like a meaningful relationship.

i think 1night stands are good aslong as you protect yourself it's fun...to bad there's not to many people that are into it anymore :(

You gotta be kidding me there Jay, almost every woman I have gone out with ends up wanting it on the first or second date (maybe it is just me); I will soon begin to compose my New Theory of Women, which is being field tested as we speak... And BTW this does not relate to those evenings were I go out looking for a one night stand, which is at most 3 times a year.

Several night stands are even better

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It just depends..Yeah, no STD would be the first to worry about..But sometimes the one night stand with a hot guy is all you need for a while. No love involve, no names, no worries. Just another time to think about that was fun and possibly the best time you have ever had...

I never had one... I practice celibacy since alone so I dunno....

I would enjoy them much more if they weren't attached to a hangover. But then again they probably wouldn't happen sober. I'm just to shy.

That's funny...