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Topic: One night stands good or great
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Sat 05/09/09 04:35 AM
what do you think?????????

papersmile's photo
Sat 05/09/09 04:41 AM
Good? Great?? No other option?

I never had one before but I can only imagine that it'd be pretty crappy all around.

I couldn't possibly imagine making love with someone with whom I wasn't in love. There's no way I'd be able to trust someone with my body if I didn't know them and I most certainly would feel terrible knowing I wasn't good enough to date, that I was just used for one night.

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Sat 05/09/09 04:52 AM
Sorry your life is that sad that you cant enjoy the finer things in life. a man is there to be used. not the other way around...... try it you may like it. in life you have to enjoy and take risks.... i had on last night and cant remember wat his face looked like but can remember everything else it only human nature.... are you virgin

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Sat 05/09/09 05:05 AM

Sorry your life is that sad that you cant enjoy the finer things in life. a man is there to be used. not the other way around...... try it you may like it. in life you have to enjoy and take risks.... i had on last night and cant remember wat his face looked like but can remember everything else it only human nature.... are you virgin


A one nite stand is a "finer thing in life"? Honey, you need to get out more.

hereformore's photo
Sat 05/09/09 05:12 AM
I would not be interested in making love with someone if love was not what we felt for each other. Guess I am just old fashioned that way. To each his own.

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Sat 05/09/09 06:09 AM
I would not consider a one night stand one of the finer things in life- they were fun when i was younger and didn't know what i wanted and was just out exploring- it was just sex- no feelings no commitment.

BUT- now that Im an adult and I respect myself, my body and emotios and really feel that I am worth more than just a simple f**k, I don't do them.

Now I prefer to make love with my partner, the emotions, feelings, knowing that you have that connection to that special person is by far better than waking up and having no idea who the person is next you to.

Of course to each his or her own, and if that is what you enjoy then more power to you- Im not judging you as I don't do that- Only God can judge anyone- but just a few questions- don't you feel dirty or used? Aren't you looking for a relationship or do you really enjoy just sleeping around? I have not looked at your profile so I don't know how old you are or anything about you- but you really enjoy just going out and picking someone up and sleeping with them and never talking to them again?

If so- thats fine- whatever makes you happy- im just curious- and on a practical note- I hope you are practicing safe sex- and you have a support system- Just be careful. I would not want anything to happen to youflowers

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 05/09/09 06:38 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Sat 05/09/09 06:38 AM
One night stands? Easy, predictable,empty, passe. No Thank you!

Dangerous_Kitchen's photo
Sat 05/09/09 07:07 AM
i've tried to have them, but they always end up sticking around cuz the lovin's so good drool :wink:

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Sat 05/09/09 07:33 AM

i've tried to have them, but they always end up sticking around cuz the lovin's so good drool :wink:


drinker Good for you!!

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Sat 05/09/09 07:46 AM
i had one a few weeks back...i'm not that kind of girl...but it's been so long...and i didn't know it was going to end up a one nighter...i feel terribly empty now...plus...it was all about him and for it being the first time in awhile...it was less than stellar....so i have to say not good, not great for me...but that's just me.

Tootsweet13's photo
Sat 05/09/09 01:23 PM
One night stands...not good. For me there has to be a trust established between me and my partner, or I can't relax enough to have a really great orgasm.

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Sat 05/09/09 01:26 PM

Sorry your life is that sad that you cant enjoy the finer things in life. a man is there to be used. not the other way around...... try it you may like it. in life you have to enjoy and take risks.... i had on last night and cant remember wat his face looked like but can remember everything else it only human nature.... are you virgin



You're sorry for her b/c she chooses to be with someone she loves rather than using random strangers? I would think that you would respect her way of handling her life as you would want people to respect yours.. I mean respect in the way of "you do your thing, I won't judge"... Not "I'm in awe of your one night standing ways"... To each their own... ya know...

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Sat 05/23/09 04:36 AM

Good? Great?? No other option?

I never had one before but I can only imagine that it'd be pretty crappy all around.

I couldn't possibly imagine making love with someone with whom I wasn't in love. There's no way I'd be able to trust someone with my body if I didn't know them and I most certainly would feel terrible knowing I wasn't good enough to date, that I was just used for one night.
AMEN sister...if a man doesn't win my heart,stimulate my mind,soothe my soul than he is not getting my body.I am NOT an orface walking around for men to stick it in,i have feelings

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Sun 05/31/09 05:49 AM

Sorry your life is that sad that you cant enjoy the finer things in life. a man is there to be used. not the other way around...... try it you may like it. in life you have to enjoy and take risks.... i had on last night and cant remember wat his face looked like but can remember everything else it only human nature.... are you virgin


Back in the day, when we lived in an 8 x 12 garden shed and licked lard off our hands for lunch we may have done such things but not today. Things change over time and you look for finer qualities in your choice of "Blanket Buddies". I realize after reading your profile that the lifestyle choices you make are part of your environment, I'm cool with that. Used to be in a band myself many moons ago and if it had breasts,breathed and took up space I'd do it. The band is gone, we've aged and become wiser and taken different paths in life. I'm still the only single one from those days but I have changed too and I'm more selective, I'm not saying that it couldn't happen but hey, that ain't what guides my choices anymore.

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Sun 05/31/09 06:30 AM
in that case you may as well spend the extra money and get a hooker

same difference

DamnPhule's photo
Sun 05/31/09 06:34 AM
Dude, Iv'e thought about. Time to get rid of the poison.

grumble frustrated

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Sun 05/31/09 06:52 AM
ummmmmm okay

whatever that means

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Sun 05/31/09 08:08 AM
GREAT! so long as you don't catch an STD

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Sun 05/31/09 09:01 AM


Sorry your life is that sad that you cant enjoy the finer things in life. a man is there to be used. not the other way around...... try it you may like it. in life you have to enjoy and take risks.... i had on last night and cant remember wat his face looked like but can remember everything else it only human nature.... are you virgin



You're sorry for her b/c she chooses to be with someone she loves rather than using random strangers? I would think that you would respect her way of handling her life as you would want people to respect yours.. I mean respect in the way of "you do your thing, I won't judge"... Not "I'm in awe of your one night standing ways"... To each their own... ya know...


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Sun 05/31/09 09:13 AM


nowadays i would be careful,with AIDS and herpes...a night of sex isn't worth getting either one ..jmo..did i mention i don't have either one..bigsmile

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