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Topic: What would be your reaction?
mchs2001us3 Joined Thu 04/30/09 Posts: 8	Wed 05/06/09 05:18 PM
Just went through that. I packed her stuff and told her to come get it

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 05/06/09 05:21 PM
If your boyfriend or girlfriend seemed to drop off the face of the earth and not have any contact with you whatsoever and then suddenly reappeared, what would be your reaction? If they disappeared, then that's it. If they were to reappear, I would be very cold towards them, not mad or anything, just kinda like "whatever", there wouldn't be any relationship betwen us, no past, no future.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 05/06/09 05:27 PM
when they reappear... I tell them to go back to the whole they just crawled out of and stay there.

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Wed 05/06/09 05:29 PM
I would ask, "Hope the Aliens treated you well"

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Wed 05/06/09 06:12 PM
If your boyfriend or girlfriend seemed to drop off the face of the earth and not have any contact with you whatsoever and then suddenly reappeared, what would be your reaction? That actually happened to me with a couple of girls I dated- everything would be going well, and then poof... they'd just vanish off the face of the planet, often maintaining radio silence for weeks on end, only to finally show up and call things off. My reaction to those first couple of experiences was confusion and disgust for being utterly disrespected and insulted the way I was. I just shrug my shoulders and chalk it up to flakiness on their parts nowadays. Not only that, I figure I probably lucked out in that I was probably gonna open myself to more dramatic drama if they DIDN'T pull their games.

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Wed 05/06/09 06:14 PM
What kind of time frame? Couple hours? Couple days? Weeks? Months? Couple days I would be fine with, more than that I am moving on

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Wed 05/06/09 06:33 PM
If your boyfriend or girlfriend seemed to drop off the face of the earth and not have any contact with you whatsoever and then suddenly reappeared, what would be your reaction? I'd be cold as ice. Stone cold.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Wed 05/06/09 06:35 PM
If your boyfriend or girlfriend seemed to drop off the face of the earth and not have any contact with you whatsoever and then suddenly reappeared, what would be your reaction? [/quote ]gee de javu... so I said yeah right you expect me to beklieve this? I also said yeah right give it a few days and you'll be gone again. This time it took 6 weeks and suere enough poof gone again. And I suspect in another month I will get a call AGAIN

1vikingsfan Joined Mon 10/20/08 Posts: 3764	Wed 05/06/09 06:43 PM
Excuse me do I know you?

whispering_pines Joined Fri 07/25/08 Posts: 2	Wed 05/06/09 06:46 PM
I would definately feel as though I deserved an explanation!! This same thing happend to me. He was gone for 6 months and suddenly reappeared thinking nothing was wrong.. SORRY!!! If he cared.. he would have at least contacted you. Also.. who is to say that this will not be repeated again in the future?? I would move on girl.. move on!!

LiilKiSSForYA Joined Fri 03/27/09 Posts: 36	Wed 05/06/09 11:51 PM
If he dropped off the earth.... ...i would say okay enjoy yourself

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Tue 05/26/09 09:52 AM
I'd have their stuff ready to go at the front door

agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Tue 05/26/09 10:25 AM
keep walking. I moved on.

QuirkyLady Joined Sun 04/26/09 Posts: 163	Tue 05/26/09 10:30 AM
id kick em out

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 05/26/09 10:45 AM
If your boyfriend or girlfriend seemed to drop off the face of the earth and not have any contact with you whatsoever and then suddenly reappeared, what would be your reaction? DEATH by mutilation and sandpaper!!!

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 05/27/09 11:15 AM
change the locks