i ask this because i see most guys go by a womans looks , if he doesnt
think the woman is hot they dont even give her the time of day ,
i met this man online 2 years ago we didnt know what eachother looked
like , we wrote back and forth never asking for a photo i begain to
really like the person he was he was very sweet , he asked me to move
there many times, then one day we talked on the phone i saw his photo
from a year ago he was ok not hot but ok , just your avg guy and we have
gotten closer on the phone ,
sometimes if you look on the inside first you will be surprised what
you will find , he is like an angel , my angel and the most beautiful
person i have ever known but more on the inside,
i think everyone should try it look on the inside first sometimes
you ll find a good person and who knows maybe your soul mate

believe me masterpiece, its the personality that counts. As you grow
older, looks fade by age but a good heart and soul are forever

I agree.....

This is what I go by........

You can meet the most attractive person in the world, start dating them
and then they could end up being the biggest idiot in the
world.......And then, you could meet someone who's not as attractive as
the first one, and they could end up being the best thing for
you............Personality is the key.

well said Mikey...

you all are right in how you think. but you would be surprised at the
number of people on jsh who want to know what you look like. what does
that tell you?

they are shallow and self centered

Exactly....Why do you think I have a photo of a kitten up right now?
LMAO...........

No, seriously.......I am involved with someone who I care about, but
we've yet to meet. We talk through web cam and can see each other. So I
don't think things will be much different in person, at least I hope
not.

but alot of men do go by looks and a lot of woman too i wish they would
read what i wrote and relize that there soulmate could be right under
their nose , just if they give it a chance ,
i also think looks dont matter now i have a friend at work she goes by
looks , there is an awesome man that likes her and she dont like him
cause he has gray hair and no muscles. shes missing out ,

Mikey what you said............yes!

If they are only looking for your looks they sure are'nt looking for
much of anything...because what we look like may not be who we are...
beauty is only skin deep sometimes and some people are beautiful
inside...

Well said, Teddy!!!

yes well said , i have met some very beautiful people in my life time,

So have I and you're one of them, Laurie my dear.

thanks jesse so are you

Apparently, looks matter a lot to many. And, I find that the guys my age
are looking more at the younger prettier ones than women my age. I mean,
who can really blame them though. They come on and see all the beautiful
young women and get side tracked by the "what ifs". Looks absolutely do
not matter to me. I love whats on the inside. More often than not, they
become beautiful on the outside as well.
Kat

Guess lookin' like this, I just struck out!

OMG!!!!!

I once tried to explain my take on this..

Preferences have a lot to do with men making contact ladies..
And..If a man finds a woman attractive, and goes on from there..

With each Email, IM, Phone call, etc; The lady becomes more attractive
to him..

By the time they meet, she will have becpome "hot" to him, and that is
all that really matters, at the end of the day.

im lookin at all ya lovely ladys

not at pics but at yall

i take each n everyone of ya

but yall just throw rocks at me




party on...

we know you would steper, and someday a woman will take the time to get
to know you , cause if she does she will find a very nice man in there
, your very good hearted and when a woman just gives you that chance
they will see that ,

awww shucks mp




naw they just throw rocks at me




party on...