dont fool your self. it means alot to me that a gal is nice looking.
thats what keeps a persons attention.

i go by chemistry first and foremost and if we have things in common if
we can hold a conversation together but of course to a certain degree
looks matter if your not attracted to someone then no matter how nice
and all they are you just arent attracted to them..........its all about
chemistry

well doesnt it matter more if their beautiful on the inside
i mean they have to be plesent on the eyes of course but they dont have
to be hot if there hot on the inside have you ever went out with an
averge woman , and yet to you she was just so hot, but to others she was
not,

alot of things are important as well as the looks. thats the first thing
everone sees.

but if you dont see the looks and all you can do is talk and you found
you liked alot about this person , and you see them if their not
beautiful or hot do you just say later?

I won't lie. I have a certain type I am attracted to. I would say I am
not attracted to blondes, but then I met a blonde guy and it didn't
matter a whit. (He turned out to be a loser) A guy's height does
not matter to me. I am 5'5" and he could be shorter than me, but I don't
like a really skinny guy. So weight does matter to me, but not in the
way most people would imagine, that I wouldn't like a heavy guy. I don't
care about that.

Does not have to be hot. But there has to be attraction.

not much

Rivergirl - your comment strikes me as ironic. Speaking as a short,
slender male with a reasonably athletic build, all I hear is that women
prefer husky guys. That or the horrible of horribles - "I don't care
what you look like, just so long as you're taller than I am." Doesn't
help that short, slender girls are in high demand, either.

I have to admit, I have a body type I go for. I prefer women who are
curvaceous but not too heavy. Is that shallow of me? Of course. But
it's also honest. I've tried to involve myself with women to whom I was
genuinely not physically attracted, simply because I really liked them,
and it does not work. This is not to say that I'm looking for a
supermodel or an anorexic, but I do think that physicality and
attraction matter a great deal. To women as well as men.

some people feel that way

there is nothing wrong with having preferences.

i cant just kiss anyone...like i said there has to be attraction but
that comes in all kinds of ways.

well said puck

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party on...

NomDiplume: I just don't want to crush him if I get on top!

"Good looks" are for the eyes. Personality is for the brain and heart.
I dated a lot of "jocks". There wasn't any real attraction to them. I
met a "computer geek" with an amazing personality. I was not able to
keep my hands off.