Would you have sex on the first date?..especially if you started kissing
and it was hot and all the heat is ready to burst in flames...and if you
do have sex...would you love yourself in the morning....or just go with
the flow ooolala..

i wouldn't be stopping in the morning

Possible, but not probable. It has happened, but very, very rarely.

it's happened. *shrugs*

i'm not exactly the type to second-guess myself or worry over a decision
that can't be taken back.

hmmmmmm....

depends but if I felt it was right or I wanted to..yeah. There would be
no regrets.

It depends...If I knew the person before I actually had that first date
with them, then it is possible......But I highly doubt I'd have sex with
them on the first date......Other things, most likely........But not
sex. That would be for date #2

wow tough question...

get back to you on this one when it happens-lol.

Never, but as soon as I dropped them off Id pick um right back up for
date # 2, which then sex is acceptable

LMAO, Mikey

i am not sure about that one it would all depend if i already knew the
person , dont want to seem to easy.

I agree with that, Laurie............

DEPENDS: on the person I was with and how HOT THE FLAMES GOT!

WHO WOULD WANT TO STOP IF IT'S THAT GOOD?

I have, but no matter what guys say, many of them ARE very judgmental
about that. Oh, they don't judge THEMSELVES for doing it, but they sure
will the woman.

If I was as attracted to the person as you describe in the OP then why
not?

For me sex isn’t a superficial thing. If I was that excited about
having sex with a woman I was dating I would probably be looking at the
whole relationship with hopes that its going to be moving forward too.

So I don’t any problem.

It would seem to me to only be a problem for people who have sex
superficially with people they have no interested in becoming involved
with.

So to me the question is kind of meaningless. You say, “...and if you
do have sex...would you love yourself in the morning....”

What’s not to love if your feelings were sincere?

You certainly can’t blame yourself if the other person wasn’t interested
in moving forward. You have no control over that. You’re feelings
should based solely on YOUR intentions. If you had sex with someone
you weren’t interested in becoming involved with, then that was your
choice.

Like I say, I don’t do that. I only have sex with women I’m genuinely
interested in becoming involved with, and if they don’t feel the same
way about me that’s not my fault because I have no control over their
intentions or motivation.

Humm girl ya hit that one right on the head for alot of men do judge the
women that sleep with them to fast. Shsssssssh Ohhh I did say most for
there are some that don't. But as some has said if I do it is cause I
wanted to and it felt right at the time but if one is going to base the
whole relationship all just because I did well then ya back up look in a
mirror. Cause the one your looking at is no better than you are judging.
Matter of fact the one looking back is worse at least the other one did
not judge you completely for one action.

Passion and passion you get carried away and you may go through with
having sex ,chemistry..and then boom its all good..then we can go our
merry way..some want more attachment if ya know what I
mean..confusing..need the scholars again....