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Topic: Dye Job...
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Mon 05/04/09 06:52 PM
papersmile keeps changing her hair color (she's a woman it's just something they do) and she asks how I like it

but to be honest I stay so enraptured with her smile and her eyes that I never notice the color of her hair

(that ought to be good for some brownie points)

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 05/04/09 06:53 PM

So, let's just say you go out with a blonde...you have a great time & you just so happen to love blondes... Next time, she's a redhead...but that's OK, cuz you don't mind redheads either... The 3rd time she's a brunette...but you've never really been attracted to brunettes... Do you still have a good time with her? Would you ask her to go back to being blonde?

I ask this cuz it seems that a lot of men do have a preference for hair color...I'm wondering if it's a woman's attitude...or just a Pavlovian response, cuz you like a certain color...


I would tell her to shave it all off and be done with it.

AngieH79's photo
Mon 05/04/09 06:53 PM


I will admit, I do get more attention now that I've added blond highlights.

Maybe I should update my picture. . .


Do it Honey! I wanna see!


All I have is my phone to take pictures with. You can only take so many of those hold the phone at arms length pictures before they start to look bad.

willing2's photo
Mon 05/04/09 07:22 PM

So, let's just say you go out with a blonde...you have a great time & you just so happen to love blondes... Next time, she's a redhead...but that's OK, cuz you don't mind redheads either... The 3rd time she's a brunette...but you've never really been attracted to brunettes... Do you still have a good time with her? Would you ask her to go back to being blonde?

I ask this cuz it seems that a lot of men do have a preference for hair color...I'm wondering if it's a woman's attitude...or just a Pavlovian response, cuz you like a certain color...


I generally don't get around to noticing hair color til after the sex.

I get blinded by the conquest.

Even her name, I have to repeat over and over again so, I don't forget and have to look at her mail to remember.

Then, if it lasts a couple years, I might be able to tell you what color her eyes are.
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Just teasing. Hair color's no big thing!

Holly4459's photo
Tue 05/05/09 09:40 AM

:heart: Brunettes:heart:


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artcat's photo
Tue 05/05/09 09:58 AM

papersmile keeps changing her hair color (she's a woman it's just something they do) and she asks how I like it

but to be honest I stay so enraptured with her smile and her eyes that I never notice the color of her hair

(that ought to be good for some brownie points)


Aww Quiet, don't you know you don't need any brownie points with her? flowerforyou


I went blonde at one point, got good reactions from people. I was married at the time and my husband didn't care one way or another. He just wanted my hair long whatever color it was.

After going back to my natural brunette, I look back at those pictures and say, "what was I thinking?"! laugh

Holly4459's photo
Tue 05/05/09 10:03 AM


papersmile keeps changing her hair color (she's a woman it's just something they do) and she asks how I like it

but to be honest I stay so enraptured with her smile and her eyes that I never notice the color of her hair

(that ought to be good for some brownie points)


Aww Quiet, don't you know you don't need any brownie points with her? flowerforyou


I went blonde at one point, got good reactions from people. I was married at the time and my husband didn't care one way or another. He just wanted my hair long whatever color it was.

After going back to my natural brunette, I look back at those pictures and say, "what was I thinking?"! laugh




most men like long hairwhoa

oldsage's photo
Tue 05/05/09 10:07 AM

At that point, if they really liked you.. the color of your hair shouldn't matter. JMO

I am naturally a brunette..but change my hair color often. lol


This lady speaks the truth.
Do it with class & the gentleman will never care.
Gwen colored her hair as "she chose.


Only 1 way to tell a ladie's true hair color.

(learned that as a young lad.)

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Tue 05/05/09 10:12 AM
Hmmm...speaking of "that", Sage...is it a turn off when they don't match? :wink:

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 05/05/09 02:34 PM

Hmmmm....it is weird....as a strawberry blonde,(that's the natural version) guys expect me to be ditzier, more 'good time gal'...as a brunette guys were warier of me...they held back more.


Same as having long hair or short hair, you get different reactions...

with dreadlocks, I had the strangest conservative men hitting on me..


when I shaved my head... it was crazy!

Men and women were hitting on me!!!noway

Something really crazy about a woman with a number 1 buzz cut...seems to bring out the animus in people...

and the stupidest thing was... I am still the same person...hair or no hair.


Did you ever think that you styled your hair according to your mood at the time, blond happy go lucky, brunette somewhat serious, shaved maybe feeling a little "butch" at the time, and that those moods colored peoples reactions to you?

Totage's photo
Tue 05/05/09 02:37 PM

So, let's just say you go out with a blonde...you have a great time & you just so happen to love blondes... Next time, she's a redhead...but that's OK, cuz you don't mind redheads either... The 3rd time she's a brunette...but you've never really been attracted to brunettes... Do you still have a good time with her? Would you ask her to go back to being blonde?

I ask this cuz it seems that a lot of men do have a preference for hair color...I'm wondering if it's a woman's attitude...or just a Pavlovian response, cuz you like a certain color...


I tend t be more attracted to brunettes, but I apperciate the beauty of all hair colors. I'd prefer natural hair colors, but if she likes to dye her hair, I don't mind.

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Tue 05/05/09 08:01 PM

So, let's just say you go out with a blonde...you have a great time & you just so happen to love blondes... Next time, she's a redhead...but that's OK, cuz you don't mind redheads either... The 3rd time she's a brunette...but you've never really been attracted to brunettes... Do you still have a good time with her? Would you ask her to go back to being blonde?

I doubt I'd ask her anything, only wonder about the apparent confusion or where she was going with the changes...

I ask this cuz it seems that a lot of men do have a preference for hair color...I'm wondering if it's a woman's attitude...or just a Pavlovian response, cuz you like a certain color...

I myself have had a thing for redheads because of the rarity and one other parameter with redheads (if it's natural). They are either plain or dynamite. I think it has something to do with the freckles that accompany the hair color. Have I ever had anything permanent with a redhead (as in marriage or long term), nope. If I've been out with ...
-think stupid, think. numbers are bad, mmkay-
Let's just leave it at that...

galendgirl's photo
Tue 05/05/09 08:23 PM

It is all good until she shows up looking like Sinead O'Conner.


I was actually just going to say you could shave it all off and let the guessing games begin. A little scary to know that we think along similar (parallel opposite) lines!

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