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Humm well recently just went out with a guy and the chemistry was not there at all. Humm among a few other things but I did not tell him right then but did shoot him and e-mail and told him the chemistry was not there for me. Some times it happens not much you can do but be honest with them.
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act like a jerk and they will leave you alone There's only one time I use that approach... When a friends' wife becomes too nice or sweet or friendly. Guys, you know what I'm talking about... |
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Cangel, I met a man around 2001 that everyone thought was so perfect for me. He was nice, funny, a hard worker, honest, all the things you'd look for in a S.O or even a friend. My Mother Loved him. But "it" was not there. I finally told her that SHE should go marry him! But I didn't want to settle even though he was/is a great guy. I guess I want it all. We remained good friends until he moved. No contact in years now. And yes, I did tell him, That I only saw us as friends. |
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Why Deb??
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Yooo Hoo, Why do you say that Deb?
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act like a jerk and they will leave you alone There's only one time I use that approach... When a friends' wife becomes too nice or sweet or friendly. Guys, you know what I'm talking about... and then they become more attached, since women attracted to jerks..it happened to me actually...I could tell she was just so on the subject..then I just started to ignore her..for the sake of my friend..I ignore her up to this day.. |
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Not all women are attracted to jerks.
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act like a jerk and they will leave you alone There's only one time I use that approach... When a friends' wife becomes too nice or sweet or friendly. Guys, you know what I'm talking about... and then they become more attached, since women attracted to jerks..it happened to me actually...I could tell she was just so on the subject..then I just started to ignore her..for the sake of my friend..I ignore her up to this day.. Hard to completely ignore a friends wife/girlfriend I think my buddies appreciate it without saying. No foul, no harm, no straying wife |
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