Topic: Felling kind of sad
ShagnaC's photo
Wed 05/09/07 04:53 PM
I broke up with the man I was seeing for about 2 months a few nights ago
and I just met him to give him his things back, and asked if he still
wanted to be friends. He said no and I told him I would respect that.
I am just kind of in the dumps as I really enjoyed the long talks and
connection.
I know it wasnt ment to be and thats why I broke it off so why am I sad
days later?

baby_gurl's photo
Wed 05/09/07 04:57 PM
because u probably miss him and did love him flowerforyou but we are
all here for ya girl!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Meeshep's photo
Wed 05/09/07 04:58 PM
flowerforyou

uk1971's photo
Wed 05/09/07 04:58 PM
Know the feelingsad flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

ShagnaC's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:01 PM
Why would I be sad though, knowing it was for the best?

Morena350's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:02 PM
sorry about that shagna!!flowerforyou flowerforyou

ShagnaC's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:03 PM
He was a great guy and we connected on so many levels, but there was
some control issues he has and wanted to move way to fast so I broke it
off.

baby_gurl's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:05 PM
knowing its for the best and feeling it its totaly different

uk1971's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:05 PM
Maybe because you feel something for him that you weren't sure about?
flowerforyou glasses

songbirrd's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:06 PM
Because when you're in a relationship you're always planning for the
future seeing a life with them and then suddenly it's gone. You lose a
lil of the life you thought you wanted it's as hard as losing a person.
But knowing that it's for the best is better than wondering what went
wrong. I:heart:You girl and I'm here if you ever want to talk.

ShagnaC's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:10 PM
Thank you all, I think it is hard as I wanted to remain friends and he
did and it was a kick in the ass for me I guess.

ShagnaC's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:11 PM
oops he didnt want to stay friends

FindMe1113's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:13 PM
:heart: :heart: :heart: flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Jess642's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:15 PM
Feeling sad?

Why?

You called the shots.

You chose to end it.

You chose to decide you wanted to keep parts of what you had with him,
the good stuff, and he said no.

Sounds like he chose something, and that is what you are sad about.

ShagnaC's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:17 PM
Maybe you are right jess, It is just to bad it is over 100 percent and a
friend was lost