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Topic: 18/F/TX - A little insecure...
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Fri 05/01/09 03:50 PM
Edited by powerpetfreak23 on Fri 05/01/09 04:00 PM
Hey, I was wondering, without reading my profile just looking at picture(s),
What would you rate me (from 1-10, 10 the biggest) how hot/cute that you think I am.

Also, what do you like about me?

I'm a little insecure about myself and my body..

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The same as above, but just on my about me.

What do you like about it?

What should I change? Add?

I really want to know...

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Fri 05/01/09 03:58 PM
not bad

hi and welcome

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Fri 05/01/09 04:06 PM
What's a power pet?

Italy0219's photo
Fri 05/01/09 04:24 PM
Hey, your cute, don't be so hard on yourself..your young that's why you are a little insecure, when your my age honey, you will look back and say, damn, I was so hot, I shoulda ......so live it up,, and it's ok....

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Fri 05/01/09 04:27 PM

What's a power pet?


It's a website I was addicted to it when I was little.

metalwing's photo
Fri 05/01/09 04:32 PM

Hey, I was wondering, without reading my profile just looking at picture(s),
What would you rate me (from 1-10, 10 the biggest) how hot/cute that you think I am.

Also, what do you like about me?

I'm a little insecure about myself and my body..

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The same as above, but just on my about me.

What do you like about it?

What should I change? Add?

I really want to know...


Very nice. Very honest. Very revealing.

If you are concerned about how "hot" your pictures are, have a friend take some full body shots outside. Wear something "hot". Your pet pictures are higher quality than most of the indoor photos of you.

Welcome.

LordCole's photo
Fri 05/01/09 05:20 PM
Edited by LordCole on Fri 05/01/09 05:22 PM

Hey, I was wondering, without reading my profile just looking at picture(s),
What would you rate me (from 1-10, 10 the biggest) how hot/cute that you think I am.

Also, what do you like about me?

I'm a little insecure about myself and my body..

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The same as above, but just on my about me.

What do you like about it?

What should I change? Add?

I really want to know...


First of all you are an attractive young Lady, as others have said, the dreds are very suited to you and your personality that I gathered.(an Otaku whom might listen to J-Pop)

What do you like about it? The photos are nice and the Profile is to the point.

What should I change? I would remove your comment about Sex and Your sexual orientation and phrase it to say: "I am open to dating both Men and Women". It gets your point across with out being as vulgar. (You could put that at the top of your profile.) As it is you are target enough for a flood of really horrible emails and matches from some unsavory Men.

I would also say 420 Friendly instead of what you have written.

You might want to pull the short list of Interests you have and put them in the form box when you edit your profile; When you search you can click on those Interests and find others whom enjoy Anime ETC..


Add? your Otaku... you should add that in your interests. Some more Interests would be cool but ultimately that is your choice.

ご幸運をお祈りします - ごこううんをおいのりします
gokouun o oinorishimasu!




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Sat 05/02/09 03:36 AM
You have no need to be insecure about anything. You look beautiful. Obviously, from you're insecurity, you also aren't stuck on yourself, so that is good as well. You shouldn't change a thing, doll.

Jtevans's photo
Sat 05/02/09 04:38 AM
hey i'd hit it smokin

Mr_Music's photo
Sat 05/02/09 06:28 AM
If you are concerned about how "hot" your pictures are, have a friend take some full body shots outside. Wear something "hot". Your pet pictures are higher quality than most of the indoor photos of you.


Oh, yeah! Just so she can have all the pigs and perverts and old farts ogling all over her, enough to turn her into another cynical, man-hating female! Great idea! Just what the world needs!

indifferent whoa

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Sat 05/02/09 06:54 AM


LordCole: Total thanks, this is the kind of advice I have been asking for. ^-^ I'll make the changes and see what happens!!

MikleWolf: Mundo thanks!! I don't get complements very often, so I really appreciate it!! ^///^ Also, elcome to mingle! I'm honered to get your first ever post!

Jtevans: O///O lol.... lol..

Mr_Music: You are much too right.. If someone roeally wants to see me, they could message me asking for better pics. I really don't want the wrong kind of attention. =D

metalwing: ........>_>........

Pink_lady's photo
Sat 05/02/09 07:05 AM
U should edit this thread name and take out the 'im insecure' bit....kinda like saying, here i am, im vulnerable...that could also attract the wrong attn.

Mr_Music's photo
Sat 05/02/09 07:07 AM
Too late to edit the title anymore, Lisa. They only give you an hour, and it's way past that.

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Sat 05/02/09 07:09 AM
Yeah...

metalwing's photo
Sat 05/02/09 07:10 AM

If you are concerned about how "hot" your pictures are, have a friend take some full body shots outside. Wear something "hot". Your pet pictures are higher quality than most of the indoor photos of you.


Oh, yeah! Just so she can have all the pigs and perverts and old farts ogling all over her, enough to turn her into another cynical, man-hating female! Great idea! Just what the world needs!

indifferent whoa


That isn't what I had in mind. I meant for her to use her own judgment, not mine or yours. She is a pretty girl but some of the indoor photos are not very high quality. An outdoor photo in good light wearing what she thinks she looks best in would be an honest improvement. "Hot" to a young girl does not mean perverse. Showing a little skin is not evil. The more honest attention she attracts, the more choices she has to choose from. LordCole has the right ideas about cleaning up her profile. I was just trying to improve the photography.

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Sat 05/02/09 07:10 AM

Too late to edit the title anymore, Lisa. They only give you an hour, and it's way past that.


Thats a shame, wee tip for any newbies posting....dont announce ur insecurity on here, it will only expose u to manipulative ppl who wanna exploit ya.

Mr_Music's photo
Sat 05/02/09 07:13 AM
Edited by Mr_Music on Sat 05/02/09 07:15 AM
You have it wrong. A woman wearing something even slightly revealing is an invitation to attract the wrong kind of attention. As a result, women start thinking "all men are pigs", which gives us ALL a bad name, whether we deserve it or not.

By the same token, the women then wonder why they're getting all the perverts looking at them. Well, what you advertise in the window is the kind of clientele you'll attract.

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Sat 05/02/09 07:14 AM
I was aware of what I was posting. I put that specific word there on purpose because that is what I am/was and I wanted to make myself feel a little better about my profile. ^-^

Pink_lady's photo
Sat 05/02/09 07:25 AM

You have it wrong. A woman wearing something even slightly revealing is an invitation to attract the wrong kind of attention. As a result, women start thinking "all men are pigs", which gives us ALL a bad name, whether we deserve it or not.

By the same token, the women then wonder why they're getting all the perverts looking at them. Well, what you advertise in the window is the kind of clientele you'll attract.



I have to agree with Keith here. I dont have any pics that show me wearing summit 'hot' that would just be stupid as it would attract sexual attn that i dont want.

metalwing's photo
Sat 05/02/09 07:34 AM

You have it wrong. A woman wearing something even slightly revealing is an invitation to attract the wrong kind of attention. As a result, women start thinking "all men are pigs", which gives us ALL a bad name, whether we deserve it or not.

By the same token, the women then wonder why they're getting all the perverts looking at them. Well, what you advertise in the window is the kind of clientele you'll attract.



There are some very smart, classy women on this site that show a little skin, tattoos, leg, whatever. If what you say is true, I would think they would switch to a face-only shot in bad lighting.

You may be right but I don't think like you do. I think in terms of good photography and someone looking their best. The girl has grown up and is seeking honest opinions. That is a big step.

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