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I guess we'll just agree to disagree on this issue then. Plenty of experience has told me that the more revealing type of photos a woman puts out for all to see, the only "honest" response she'll get (for the most part) are the lecherous kind. Then, "ALL" men bear the brunt of her misinformed wrath.
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You have it wrong. A woman wearing something even slightly revealing is an invitation to attract the wrong kind of attention. As a result, women start thinking "all men are pigs", which gives us ALL a bad name, whether we deserve it or not. By the same token, the women then wonder why they're getting all the perverts looking at them. Well, what you advertise in the window is the kind of clientele you'll attract. I have to agree with Keith here. I dont have any pics that show me wearing summit 'hot' that would just be stupid as it would attract sexual attn that i dont want. Shows what I know! I think your pic is "hot". LOL |
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I personally think you look fine, but if someone cannot appreciate you for who you are then they dont deserve to get to know you. I have that similiar problem, i have all sorts of doubts about myself, but i have learned especially here that people look past what you look like but who you are inside. Dont be afraid to let people see you for what is in your mind, and your heart. Best wishes and welcome aboard, if you want a new friend in here just hit me up, i am perfectlly harmless and love being in here and having new friends.
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You have it wrong. A woman wearing something even slightly revealing is an invitation to attract the wrong kind of attention. As a result, women start thinking "all men are pigs", which gives us ALL a bad name, whether we deserve it or not. By the same token, the women then wonder why they're getting all the perverts looking at them. Well, what you advertise in the window is the kind of clientele you'll attract. I have to agree with Keith here. I dont have any pics that show me wearing summit 'hot' that would just be stupid as it would attract sexual attn that i dont want. Shows what I know! I think your pic is "hot". LOL Well i have clothes on!! and its only a head n shoulders shot! Honestly, the way i see it, is if u sell urself thru looking 'hot' (or slutty some might say) it would appear u r looking to attract ppl who r interested in u sexually. If thats wat they wanna do, fine, but they cant complain about men being pervs, cos they have clearly gave them the impression they r equally pervy by promoting their sexual selves thru pics. |
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You have it wrong. A woman wearing something even slightly revealing is an invitation to attract the wrong kind of attention. As a result, women start thinking "all men are pigs", which gives us ALL a bad name, whether we deserve it or not. By the same token, the women then wonder why they're getting all the perverts looking at them. Well, what you advertise in the window is the kind of clientele you'll attract. I have to agree with Keith here. I dont have any pics that show me wearing summit 'hot' that would just be stupid as it would attract sexual attn that i dont want. Shows what I know! I think your pic is "hot". LOL Well i have clothes on!! and its only a head n shoulders shot! Honestly, the way i see it, is if u sell urself thru looking 'hot' (or slutty some might say) it would appear u r looking to attract ppl who r interested in u sexually. If thats wat they wanna do, fine, but they cant complain about men being pervs, cos they have clearly gave them the impression they r equally pervy by promoting their sexual selves thru pics. Pink, I think the issue here is "hot" means something different to different people. When my nieces check each other out and tell each other they are "hot" it is something like a knee length sundress with shoulder straps similar to what you are wearing in your pic. My version of "hot" is apparently "lukewarm".  If my intent was for her to wear something sleazy I would have said "Wear something sleazy". Attention! Please remove all mention I have used of the word "hot" because I (and my nieces) apparently are out of touch!!! Please substitute the word "Pretty". Pink, just for the record, I think your pic is pretty hot! 
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Her old man thinks so, too.
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Edited by
LordCole
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Sat 05/02/09 09:51 AM
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LordCole: Total thanks, this is the kind of advice I have been asking for. ^-^ I'll make the changes and see what happens!! Your very welcome. Wow, look at all the people whom like manga... crazy! I am sure you will do well. 焦らないでマイペースでいこう！ あせらないでまいぺーすでいこう！ aseranaide maipe-su de ikou! |
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