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Topic: Ok, it's over
Jill298's photo
Wed 04/29/09 08:17 PM




you ditched her because within a week she didn't want a serious relationship?


I know a serious relationship takes time, she said she wasn't looking for one / ie / fwb's
well if you come on to strong to quick it might have scared her from wanting to get into a serious relationship. You said before you talked for 5-6 hours a day... didn't she say before what she was looking for?


I told her that i was looking for an LTR, then the lies came and now she's not looking for an LTR....I know, it puzzled me too - but at least I was upfront and honest about what i was looking for..

She says she's confused about her life right now (understatement) and she doesn't want to hurt me (cool) and we still talk (at this moment) as friends
just stay true to want you're looking for. At least she's honest enough to come forward and say she doesn't have her life straight enough right now. Better than dragging you into a big mess.

74Drew's photo
Wed 04/29/09 08:18 PM
did you do what i told you and point to her butt and then to the curb? 'cuz if you did that would've been awesome to see.


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Jill298's photo
Wed 04/29/09 08:19 PM

did you do what i told you and point to her butt and then to the curb? 'cuz if you did that would've been awesome to see.


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:laughing: :laughing: I did that once :laughing: :laughing: and said "to the curb... you must go"

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 04/29/09 08:24 PM
flowerforyou wish you the best flowerforyou

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Wed 04/29/09 08:32 PM
Edited by Audie on Wed 04/29/09 08:32 PM

did you do what i told you and point to her butt and then to the curb? 'cuz if you did that would've been awesome to see.


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In spite of the stuff I say on here, I really am a nice guy at heart and spare people the drama - even though inside i'm stabbing them in the eyes with an exacto knife

Jill298's photo
Wed 04/29/09 08:33 PM


did you do what i told you and point to her butt and then to the curb? 'cuz if you did that would've been awesome to see.


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In spite of the stuff I say on here, I really am a nice guy at heart and spare people the drama - even though inside i'm stabbing them in the eyes with an exacto knife
noway noway noway

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 04/29/09 08:34 PM


did you do what i told you and point to her butt and then to the curb? 'cuz if you did that would've been awesome to see.


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In spite of the stuff I say on here, I really am a nice guy at heart and spare people the drama - even though inside i'm stabbing them in the eyes with an exacto knife


we are supposed to keep that inside??? now you tell me frustrated frustrated frustrated

74Drew's photo
Wed 04/29/09 11:14 PM
i'm trying to figure out how to tell this girl i've been talking to that i'm not interested in her.

the more i talk to her the less interested i am.


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Seakolony's photo
Thu 04/30/09 04:55 AM

For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on!


Good luck to you.

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 04/30/09 11:54 AM





For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on!




Yup. That's essentially what you gotta do when she tries to jerk you around like that- cut her loose and send her on her way. It's simply not worth standing by while she makes up her mind about what she wants to do. It's totally disrespectful, not to mention highly insulting.

Give yourself a high-five and go chug on a case of beer.


I'm hugging a litre bottle of Port wine! LOL

And your not sharing!!!!!!!?surprised


Here you go sweetie drinker

Yay!! Wine!!drinker Good luck on the serious relationship thing...I thought only women want that security of a stable relationship...But, wow, that threw me for a loopsurprised :wink:

tanyaann's photo
Thu 04/30/09 11:57 AM
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therapy30's photo
Thu 04/30/09 11:59 AM
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Thu 04/30/09 12:03 PM
as long as you were up front with her, hey she was upfront with you. widh there were more like her..frustrated frustrated frustrated with out issues also.

Its best you walk away you don't need drama or stress from someone who doesn't have their life in order .. JMO

GOOD LUCK

tanyaann's photo
Thu 04/30/09 12:03 PM

:thumbsup:


CopyCat! rant

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 04/30/09 12:06 PM

For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on!
drinker I would have done the same thingdrinker

therapy30's photo
Thu 04/30/09 12:13 PM


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CopyCat! rant


sue me :wink:

Jill298's photo
Thu 04/30/09 05:59 PM

i'm trying to figure out how to tell this girl i've been talking to that i'm not interested in her.

the more i talk to her the less interested i am.


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It's not me is it?sad :wink:

Jill298's photo
Thu 04/30/09 06:03 PM

i'm trying to figure out how to tell this girl i've been talking to that i'm not interested in her.

the more i talk to her the less interested i am.


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Well the typical guy way that I have found out is... to simply quit speaking to her. Kinda crappy but very effective ohwell Or you could actually talk to her and tell her you're just not that into her. ohwell it really depends on how far you have gone as to what explanation you "owe" her, if anything. Best of luck flowerforyou

talldub's photo
Thu 04/30/09 06:15 PM

i'm trying to figure out how to tell this girl i've been talking to that i'm not interested in her.

the more i talk to her the less interested i am.


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Stopping talking to her might be a good start!

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Fri 05/01/09 04:40 AM
I'm sorry hun. I might be pessimistic, but to me, when things seem too good to be be true, they usually are. What a shame, I know you were so excited about this. There's another one waiting just for you somewhere!

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