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Topic: Ok, it's over
Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Wed 04/29/09 07:42 PM
For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on!

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Wed 04/29/09 07:44 PM
High Five

grneyedldy1967 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2854	Wed 04/29/09 07:45 PM
Sorry to hear that.....

GlamorousLyly Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 942	Wed 04/29/09 07:46 PM
For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on!................................................................................. over and over again

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Wed 04/29/09 07:46 PM
Sorry to hear that..... No need to be sorry, i'm relieved!

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Wed 04/29/09 07:46 PM
For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on! Yup. That's essentially what you gotta do when she tries to jerk you around like that- cut her loose and send her on her way. It's simply not worth standing by while she makes up her mind about what she wants to do. It's totally disrespectful, not to mention highly insulting. Give yourself a high-five and go chug on a case of beer.

shadow77 Joined Sun 02/17/08 Posts: 23707	Wed 04/29/09 07:47 PM
sorry bout that but one of the things i say if you cant have honesty an communication between each other then its just for the best..

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Wed 04/29/09 07:47 PM
NEXT!

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Wed 04/29/09 07:48 PM
For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on! Yup. That's essentially what you gotta do when she tries to jerk you around like that- cut her loose and send her on her way. It's simply not worth standing by while she makes up her mind about what she wants to do. It's totally disrespectful, not to mention highly insulting. Give yourself a high-five and go chug on a case of beer. I'm hugging a litre bottle of Port wine! LOL

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 04/29/09 07:54 PM
You could look at it another way, at least she was honest and you can now re-evaluate things. You may find the person you have always dreamed about!!

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Wed 04/29/09 07:56 PM
You could look at it another way, at least she was honest and you can now re-evaluate things. You may find the person you have always dreamed about!! I hope so... Too many women out there just wanting sex - argh I have nothing against that, but it doesn't fullfil me

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Wed 04/29/09 07:58 PM
Sorry to hear it, but good for you

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Wed 04/29/09 07:59 PM
Sorry to hear...It's probably for the best.

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Wed 04/29/09 08:03 PM
For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on! Yup. That's essentially what you gotta do when she tries to jerk you around like that- cut her loose and send her on her way. It's simply not worth standing by while she makes up her mind about what she wants to do. It's totally disrespectful, not to mention highly insulting. Give yourself a high-five and go chug on a case of beer. I'm hugging a litre bottle of Port wine! LOL And your not sharing!!!!!!!?

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Wed 04/29/09 08:03 PM
For those of you that read my thread the other night....I ditched her. It was easy because she started in about not wanting a serious relationship. Whew, time to move on! Yup. That's essentially what you gotta do when she tries to jerk you around like that- cut her loose and send her on her way. It's simply not worth standing by while she makes up her mind about what she wants to do. It's totally disrespectful, not to mention highly insulting. Give yourself a high-five and go chug on a case of beer. I'm hugging a litre bottle of Port wine! LOL And your not sharing!!!!!!!? Here you go sweetie

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 04/29/09 08:04 PM
you ditched her because within a week she didn't want a serious relationship?

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Wed 04/29/09 08:05 PM
you ditched her because within a week she didn't want a serious relationship? I know a serious relationship takes time, she said she wasn't looking for one / ie / fwb's

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 04/29/09 08:06 PM


Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 04/29/09 08:07 PM
you ditched her because within a week she didn't want a serious relationship? I know a serious relationship takes time, she said she wasn't looking for one / ie / fwb's well if you come on to strong to quick it might have scared her from wanting to get into a serious relationship. You said before you talked for 5-6 hours a day... didn't she say before what she was looking for?

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Wed 04/29/09 08:10 PM
you ditched her because within a week she didn't want a serious relationship? I know a serious relationship takes time, she said she wasn't looking for one / ie / fwb's well if you come on to strong to quick it might have scared her from wanting to get into a serious relationship. You said before you talked for 5-6 hours a day... didn't she say before what she was looking for? I told her that i was looking for an LTR, then the lies came and now she's not looking for an LTR....I know, it puzzled me too - but at least I was upfront and honest about what i was looking for.. She says she's confused about her life right now (understatement) and she doesn't want to hurt me (cool) and we still talk (at this moment) as friends