Are there any ladies out there that like good guys, or do they have to go through every jerk possible out there before they realize they want a good guy.... I have always been a good guy and it seems i always get the women who had jerks bring there self esteem so low that it seems like all im doing is building them back up and they initially fall n love with me, than that jerk will end up comming back into the picture and wahbam im dumped, sitting and watching time wasted walk away. of course originally it was not wasted but when u see them leave with the person they said beat them, verbally abused them, even sexually abused them, it makes you sit and wonder and sometimes cry wondering what the frick is wrong with you.. what did you do wrong, can ne one answer this question... Cause i cant stand it, thus the reason im on here, hopefully able to find a girl that dosnt have problems, instead of getting to know them in person, becomming attracted than thinking i can deal with these problems that start to come up, than before you know it , im on the outs cause i helped her deal with them all and she thinks she can go back and change these jerks... and eventually they are adding me to myspace and trying to talk again...

thanks for the advice i apologize for the topic, and not looking around more, i just saw chit chat and didn't realize it was such a sensitive subject, just thought i could get some serious answers, but i will definatly take your advice and try to leave this one alone.

makes sense i know im not the only person with the same problem... so i should have looked around for others who have asked a similar question, but u always hope that if you throw your story out there and some of your experiences, your story might not only help someone else, but also get a more definitive answer!