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dress nice, work out, make yourself as pretty as possible... But it sounds to me like he's already gone. Too much trouble to go chasing someone across state borders who isn't attracted to you. I think it's time to move on. There are plenty of guys out there that would think you're attractive. I agree. |
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I have been with my ex boyfriend for 3 years. He got a job in Houston and told me before he left that I was not physically attractive anymore. I love him so much that I want him back. What can I do? attractiveness is how you should feel about yourself, not others should feel about you. if you exude the confidence in your own attractiveness others will feel it and think that way too. no matter your size or what you look like. |
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dress nice, work out, make yourself as pretty as possible... But it sounds to me like he's already gone. Too much trouble to go chasing someone across state borders who isn't attracted to you. I think it's time to move on. There are plenty of guys out there that would think you're attractive. Your post just spoke volumes about your attitude towards women! 
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
 
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In all honesty, Dump his sorry ass for even saying that. I am totally serious, You would think that after 3 years of being together he would be able to see all your beauty. I glanced at your photos when I seen this forum and before I read the forum and wonder why anyone would think they are not attractive. Do you not feel attractive, if not ask your self what it is you would change. I see a lady with a very beautiful smile and very beautiful complextion and I dont lie, perhaps she is a little heavier then she should be. That is a very easy task to overcome. I had a friend of mine, he could barely walk, 400 plus pounds, people made fun of him, even his so called friends, everyone except me. I watched him start walking for excercise trying to lose weight. He walked past my home everyday for at least a year and 1/2. the first weeks you could see him strugle, sweating terribly, the pain in his face as he barely moved along. 1 1/2 years later he was around 150 lbs totally in shape, his walk was as fast as most peoples run. He maintains his shape today, we talk all the time about his previous life, and he said that is something he will never go back to. We talk about something else, one of the reasons he worked so hard to lose the weight was he wanted to have some pretty lady to share his life with him. As luck would have it, he never got the pretty lady, infact he is still single, the weight was not the issue as far as he is concerned now about not having someone. He just hasnt found the right lady yet. Sweetheart you are a princess, all women are and should be treated as such. If you were a top 10 beauty queen over night would your boyfriend love until the next beauty queen came along, if so, and I already know this, you arent the won with the problem he is. You have a beautiful smile dont let anyone take that from you. Barry Nicely stated Barry! Welcome to the site
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Edited by
LordCole
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Wed 04/29/09 09:38 AM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder Beholders are scary 
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I have been with my ex boyfriend for 3 years. He got a job in Houston and told me before he left that I was not physically attractive anymore. I love him so much that I want him back. What can I do?  This guy sounds abusive. You shouldnt get back with him
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder  Beer holder
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Edited by
Dro_In_Indio
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Wed 04/29/09 09:49 AM
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I have been with my ex boyfriend for 3 years. He got a job in Houston and told me before he left that I was not physically attractive anymore. I love him so much that I want him back. What can I do? Sweety, you are physically attractive. If you are not physically attractive to HIM, well, that can happen, but if that's all he was there for that was just his lame ass way of saying he wants to break up and couldn't come up with anything better. Hit the gym and go out. Put on the make up and get you hair did. Look in the mirror and See you are beautiful. When you see that beautiful gal in the mirror, you will see he is wrong. The best revenge is living well. |
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you are very pretty...forget him...you don't need him!!!!
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Edited by
Alzeimer
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Wed 04/29/09 01:08 PM
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I have been with my ex boyfriend for 3 years. He got a job in Houston and told me before he left that I was not physically attractive anymore. I love him so much that I want him back. What can I do? Being attractive is more than the physical side of things if your boyfriend says those things it is because he doesn't look at the person inside which makes 90% of the attractions. If he really loved you he would be so attracted to you no matter how you look physically. You cannot do anything to have him back, just be yourself and if he really loves you he will come back. And by the way you are very attractive. |
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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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Wed 04/29/09 01:11 PM
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i think you should work on your self-esteem. you must think you cannot do any better than this man.
start an activity that may interest you, to keep your mind off of him and onto yourself. meditation works for me, but then again, i'm slightly loony. |
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I have been with my ex boyfriend for 3 years. He got a job in Houston and told me before he left that I was not physically attractive anymore. I love him so much that I want him back. What can I do? Dump the jerk! 
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Tell him to go pound sand!
You're a pretty girl who doesn't need a loser to hang on to. Move on and have fun! |
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I agree with most of the advice the OP has been given in that she deserves more and would do best for herself to move on.
That being said, I want to validate the OP's feelings. They are normal and she has a right to them. They are neither right or wrong. Ending a relationship is not always as clear cut and simple as most would lead a person to believe. For some, it takes longer than others to let go, lick their wounds, heal, and move on. I feel the OP has a right to her space and to take the time she needs. Her feelings are valid and I wouldn't be so quick to put her down for how she feels. I know at one time or another, many of us women have felt the same way to a greater or lesser extent. |
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I agree with most of the advice the OP has been given in that she deserves more and would do best for herself to move on. That being said, I want to validate the OP's feelings. They are normal and she has a right to them. They are neither right or wrong. Ending a relationship is not always as clear cut and simple as most would lead a person to believe. For some, it takes longer than others to let go, lick their wounds, heal, and move on. I feel the OP has a right to her space and to take the time she needs. Her feelings are valid and I wouldn't be so quick to put her down for how she feels. I know at one time or another, many of us women have felt the same way to a greater or lesser extent.
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I have been with my ex boyfriend for 3 years. He got a job in Houston and told me before he left that I was not physically attractive anymore. I love him so much that I want him back. What can I do? If you are not attractive to him, there isn't anything to be done. Move on to someone who finds you attractive. You should never have to change for real love because it loves you the way you are. |
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You should never have to change for real love because it loves you the way you are.
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If I can get dates, anyone can...
You need that dude who puts you down. You're a hottie! 
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You need that dude who puts you down. You're a hottie! Perceptive.
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