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Topic: Whatever...
lilith401's photo
Wed 04/29/09 06:41 AM
Is thisa joke? You want to tap the hot girl and you're mad she isn't interested? You became friends, you want more, she doesn't. Next.

no photo
Wed 04/29/09 06:44 AM
she texted me tonight about something and I was kind of rude.


maybe there is your problem right there. if she doesn't act the way you want her to then your're rude to her?

Intrepid00's photo
Wed 04/29/09 09:29 AM
Edited by Intrepid00 on Wed 04/29/09 09:30 AM

Is thisa joke? You want to tap the hot girl and you're mad she isn't interested? You became friends, you want more, she doesn't. Next.
lol, Yeah, I wanna tap the hot girl but she doesn't know that(she probably thinks I'm gay) and neither does anyone that knows me. I've never hit on her and I always tell people "no, we're just friends'. I'm not "mad", that aspect of it has nothing to do with this post

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 04/29/09 09:30 AM
Tap it son :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Dro_In_Indio's photo
Wed 04/29/09 09:42 AM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Wed 04/29/09 09:43 AM

I have nowhere else to post this so I mind as well just let it out on here. I moved down the hall to my friend's ex-gf (not because of her, because he lived there at the time) and became really, really good friends with her but the last week or so she has completely blown me off and ignored me like I don't exist. Her friends still call me but I haven't heard from her in forever and we used to talk every day or see each other every day. I don't know what happened. I kicked my roommate out but I had every reason to and she thought he was disgusting anyway. I guess it's worth mentioning that this girl and I relate like I have with no one else and are on the same level so (and I won't even get into her killer looks) so I totally fell in love with her. Maybe she figured it out(?), maybe she's just even more stuck up than I thought she was but something has seriously changed and I don't know what it is. This woman was my best friend. What would make her completely and utterly act as if I'm the scum of the earth??? I rarely admit this but I'm seriously hurt and it's her friendship I miss most, not my attraction to her


Sometimes we react to things we hear in a bad way. Did she talk to your friend about you? She IS you friends ex... did some one say something about you that she is taking out of context? Did she find another guy and feels uncomfortable talking to you? Despite what we hear around Mingle sometimes. Nobody turns off friendship like it wasn't there.

There is something in her head. The only way you are going to know is to respectfully ask her.

Effort my young brotha!!

PS... You aint never gonna tap it til you talk to her. Unless you get her really drunk and.... well... that's a different thread.

LordCole's photo
Wed 04/29/09 10:01 AM
I agree with pretty much everyone...for the most part.

To late you should have made your move, you didn't... Neither gender are given mind reading powers; you made no move to let her know where you wanted to be in her life, she likely assumed that your "Gentlemanly" attitude meant friends, so you are now in the friends bracket and you have to move on.

It is aggravating to see someone jump on the "Stuck-Up" band wagon, just because she does not like the way you might be looking at her, does not mean she is stuck up. It may be that she just wants space from a friend who started to ogle to much for her taste.


Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 04/29/09 10:03 AM
I like the way you guys ^^ think kudos to you. drinker


:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Intrepid00's photo
Wed 04/29/09 12:12 PM

I agree with pretty much everyone...for the most part.

To late you should have made your move, you didn't... Neither gender are given mind reading powers; you made no move to let her know where you wanted to be in her life, she likely assumed that your "Gentlemanly" attitude meant friends, so you are now in the friends bracket and you have to move on.

It is aggravating to see someone jump on the "Stuck-Up" band wagon, just because she does not like the way you might be looking at her, does not mean she is stuck up. It may be that she just wants space from a friend who started to ogle to much for her taste.


Actually, I'm anything but "Gentlemanly". I'm, well i've learned alterative ways to attract women so I just fell back and didn't hit on her like every other chump does and said things to her like "your not my type" or "you remind me of my kid sister" to disqualify myself. And people really do take what I say out of context. She IS stuck up a little but you perception of why, isn't how I know this. Like I said, she has NEVER been stuck up towards me and who knows how she feels about me? Even if she did like me, I've given her every reason NOT to tell me.

lilith401's photo
Wed 04/29/09 12:19 PM
Either tell her you want to hit that or move on. Geeesh.

jtip1977's photo
Wed 04/29/09 12:22 PM
Why would she think you're gay???? laugh laugh laugh laugh

Intrepid00's photo
Thu 04/30/09 03:03 PM

Why would she think you're gay???? laugh laugh laugh laugh
cause I am...dumbass. She told a friend of mine she that she thinks I'm mad at her??

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