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Topic: When is a victim not a victim?
ThomasJB's photo
Mon 04/27/09 09:22 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1wFp8vh2pQ0&feature=related

I came across this video thread on youtube and I feel like stirring up controversy. pitchfork What do you think of her story if you can get past all the rambling? Is she a victim?

This is the original video that her video response references:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbbBfHRsMBw

Winx's photo
Mon 04/27/09 09:51 PM
A victim is not a victim when they are over 18 years old.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 04/27/09 09:51 PM
I can't hear the youtube...no speakers

lulu24's photo
Mon 04/27/09 09:58 PM
i just vomited in my mouth.

literally.

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Mon 04/27/09 09:59 PM
a pesron can justify almost anything in their own minds

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:00 PM
what

adj4u's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:05 PM

A victim is not a victim when they are over 18 years old.


this is way to simplified

you may want to rethink it

or make it more specific


to say that means you can never be a victim (you are over 18)

does that mean no matter what anyone does to you you are not a victim

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Mon 04/27/09 10:13 PM

She is not a victim.


lulu24's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:14 PM

what


sorry, rose...it's from a woman explaining about her "relationship" with a much older man at the age of twelve.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:15 PM


what


sorry, rose...it's from a woman explaining about her "relationship" with a much older man at the age of twelve.


oh ok.....ty lulu

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:15 PM
if she was 12 at the time...how old was the man???? at the time she would be a victim. wish i could hear the youtube

Winx's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:18 PM


A victim is not a victim when they are over 18 years old.


this is way to simplified

you may want to rethink it

or make it more specific


to say that means you can never be a victim (you are over 18)

does that mean no matter what anyone does to you you are not a victim


Ummm..the topic is pedophial.

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Mon 04/27/09 10:19 PM
I've seen 12 year olds that are fully developed women able to bare children very sexually motivated.

Yet our society has made it a taboo.

In a jungle society, she would marry and have children by the time she is 13.

I had a good friend who got married at 14 and by the time she was 38 years old she had raised 8 children.


adj4u's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:21 PM



A victim is not a victim when they are over 18 years old.


this is way to simplified

you may want to rethink it

or make it more specific


to say that means you can never be a victim (you are over 18)

does that mean no matter what anyone does to you you are not a victim


Ummm..the topic is pedophial.


but what if the person is chronologically 21

and

mentally 13


yellowrose10's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:23 PM
adj...i think that would be a different catagory

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Mon 04/27/09 10:23 PM
I could only make it through about 1/2 of it. IMO she comes across as very insecure, confused, disjointed and neglected. She was making all her own decisions at 12-13? Sounds like she desperately needed parental supervision. Most kids do at that age. I have to wonder what a professional therapist would say about her video.

lulu24's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:24 PM

if she was 12 at the time...how old was the man???? at the time she would be a victim. wish i could hear the youtube


i didn't hear his age...i don't think she said it. just that he was "much older" and that it was a "normal relationship".

she goes on to explain that children should be allowed to have such relationships and that it shouldn't be frowned upon, yada yada.

yeah...she's in denial.

Winx's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:25 PM
She said that George Washington married a 12 year old.slaphead

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:25 PM
pedophilia n. an obsession with children as sex objects. Overt acts, including taking sexual explicit photographs, molesting children, and exposing one's genitalia to children are all crimes. The problem with these crimes is that pedophilia is also treated as a mental illness, and the pedophile is often released only to repeat the crimes or escalate the activity to the level of murder.


http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/pedophile

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:26 PM
ty for translating lulu lol....and i seem to get that impression too

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