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| Topic: IndnPrncs Hotel/Bar - part 73 | |
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Oh Drew I've been there with the fragile, trying not demolish an ego of a male.. It's hard at times... What I use is... I'm not ready right now.. You're great but I can really only offer a friendship.. mind you that isn't far from the truth, but I know if the "right" person came along I wouldn't be thinking of how much I enjoy my single life... well, this girl's husband was cheating on her and he's moved on with the other woman leaving the girl and their 3 kids. i can tell that she's in a bad place emotionally and i don't want to throw salt in the wound. she's just too needy and needing validation and stuff. i guess at some point i'm going to have to do something to shut her down. luckily, she lives half a country away. that distance thing, ooh, i could use that. too far away for anything more than friends. . . . |
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Drew, I may sound mean but reality is we must rely on ourselves for validation and no one else... Everyone is fragile at times, but we cannot blame others for our fragility nor expect others to fix it, makes us feel better or change things... Those that do that are weak... I know I may sound harsh but weak well that's probably the only part of Darwin I agree with....
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I didn't think anyone would still be up
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(((fire))) I shouldn't be.. It's Drew's fault.. I lost Moofers I think...
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Edited by
74Drew
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Thu 04/30/09 02:51 AM
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Drew, I may sound mean but reality is we must rely on ourselves for validation and no one else... Everyone is fragile at times, but we cannot blame others for our fragility nor expect others to fix it, makes us feel better or change things... Those that do that are weak... I know I may sound harsh but weak well that's probably the only part of Darwin I agree with.... i agree. strength needs to come from within. sadly, some people never learn to develop inner strength. i used to be really bad that way too and i know now that it contributed to my failed attempts at relationships. . . . |
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I didn't think anyone would still be up i'm always still up. vampire syndrome. i sleep when it's light out. . . . |
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(((fire))) I shouldn't be.. It's Drew's fault.. I lost Moofers I think... sure, blame it on me. i see how it is. . . . |
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Drew, I may sound mean but reality is we must rely on ourselves for validation and no one else... Everyone is fragile at times, but we cannot blame others for our fragility nor expect others to fix it, makes us feel better or change things... Those that do that are weak... I know I may sound harsh but weak well that's probably the only part of Darwin I agree with.... i agree. strength needs to come from within. sadly, some people never learn to develop inner strength. i used to be really bad that way too and i know now that it contributed to my failed attempts at relationships. . . . Years ago I was the same way.. No self-esteem, I thought if I wasn't love by a man I wasn't worth anything... by my late 30's I realized only I could be the source of mu happiness... How ironic that is when I truly fell in love.. It was the best 3 yrs of my life, then he tried to kill me... |
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We'll blame moof cause he's not here to defend himself!!
And I'm off, I think perhaps 2 hours of sleep before work is better than nothing just swung by to read mail (((((princess))))  (((((drew))))))  |
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Years ago I was the same way.. No self-esteem, I thought if I wasn't love by a man I wasn't worth anything... by my late 30's I realized only I could be the source of mu happiness... How ironic that is when I truly fell in love.. It was the best 3 yrs of my life, then he tried to kill me... some people just don't know a good thing. . . . |
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From what I hear obsessesion and low self-esteem will mess you up real bad.. lol
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just stopped in to say hi everyone hope the day is going well for all
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From what I hear obsessesion and low self-esteem will mess you up real bad.. lol  Thats what messed me up
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(((fire))) I shouldn't be.. It's Drew's fault.. I lost Moofers I think... You lost Moofers??? WHERE!!! 
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moofers is lost?
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hey peeps.
tr, you find me a job yet? . . . |
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I am still looking Drew
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ok, well i'm going to be looking more also.
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Really?
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Edited by
74Drew
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Thu 04/30/09 06:10 PM
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yeah, i'm taking a 1/3 pay cut effective monday. for that little pay, i might as well start looking elsewhere.
when you figure in what i made last year with OT, it's really a 50% pay cut. . . . |
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