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Topic: If you could.....
beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 04/22/09 06:40 PM
spend one more day with a loved one that passed away who would it be? I would spend it with my Dad.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Wed 04/22/09 06:40 PM
My grandmother

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Wed 04/22/09 06:41 PM
That is tough between my Dad and Grandma. I loved them both dearly! I can't choose and you can't make me

njmom05 Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 5867	Wed 04/22/09 06:42 PM
My grandmom (or Nana as well called her), she was amazing and I miss her. I can't look at anything with a hummingbird on it and not think of her.

trgirl Joined Tue 01/20/09 Posts: 2368	Wed 04/22/09 06:43 PM
it would be my grandfather, i really miss him!

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Wed 04/22/09 06:44 PM
Can I pick my husband and both my mom and dad? If only one, it would be my husband.

FETTS61 Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 31425	Wed 04/22/09 06:45 PM
my dad

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Wed 04/22/09 06:54 PM
spend one more day with a loved one that passed away who would it be? I would spend it with my Dad. None. Why feel the same pain again when that day is over and they are taken away again?

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 04/22/09 06:54 PM
That is tough between my Dad and Grandma. I loved them both dearly! I can't choose and you can't make me I wouldn't make ya

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 04/22/09 06:56 PM
spend one more day with a loved one that passed away who would it be? I would spend it with my Dad. None. Why feel the same pain again when that day is over and they are taken away again? One more day with my Dad...to tell him I love him and forgive him would be worth any amount of pain.

STARTRAVELER Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 9691	Wed 04/22/09 06:57 PM
Nope I wo'nt make that choice because they were equally important to me for different reasons . I could'nt put one before the other

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Wed 04/22/09 06:57 PM
My cat.

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Wed 04/22/09 06:59 PM
spend one more day with a loved one that passed away who would it be? I would spend it with my Dad. None. Why feel the same pain again when that day is over and they are taken away again? One more day with my Dad...to tell him I love him and forgive him would be worth any amount of pain. I can understand that. There's one person who died that i didn't get to clear things up with. For years it tore me up but i recently realised that we WOULD have patched things up, and let it go. Tell your father anyway. Go to his grave and speak to him.

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Wed 04/22/09 07:02 PM
Guess i'm lucky, no one i've loved has died

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 04/22/09 07:11 PM
spend one more day with a loved one that passed away who would it be? I would spend it with my Dad. None. Why feel the same pain again when that day is over and they are taken away again? One more day with my Dad...to tell him I love him and forgive him would be worth any amount of pain. I can understand that. There's one person who died that i didn't get to clear things up with. For years it tore me up but i recently realised that we WOULD have patched things up, and let it go. Tell your father anyway. Go to his grave and speak to him. I've only been there once. His grave is in PA. That's 23 hours from me. Talking to a grave is not going to help me.

LordCole Joined Tue 03/31/09 Posts: 735	Wed 04/22/09 08:59 PM
spend one more day with a loved one that passed away who would it be? I would spend it with my Dad. My Baby Sister, While I have no regrets about the past, I learned a few things about her after she had gone. I would like to sit with her and talk about the things she was most passionate about that no one knew.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Wed 04/22/09 09:06 PM Edited by plk1966 on Wed 04/22/09 09:07 PM
My children's father........for many reasons so he could meet his son for the first time (he died before he was born), so I could thank him for giving me such great kids, so that he may meet his grandchildren as well, so my children could have a memory of him like I do

Want2B5ft Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 1267	Wed 04/22/09 11:03 PM
I would love to spend one more day with my sister. But, it sure would be hard to let her go at the end of that day. It would probably do me in for sure!

keepthehope Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4263	Thu 04/23/09 12:08 AM
My grandmother on my father's side

keepthehope Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4263	Thu 04/23/09 12:12 AM
One more day with my Dad...to tell him I love him and forgive him would be worth any amount of pain. You can still forgive him, if not for him, for yourself. I've been there before with my father, and I had to do that before I could have a relationship with him again. I still have him, but maybe not for very long, because he is sick, and I may loose him.