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Topic: If you could.....
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Thu 04/23/09 12:26 AM


One more day with my Dad...to tell him I love him and forgive him would be worth any amount of pain.


You can still forgive him, if not for him, for yourself. I've been there before with my father, and I had to do that before I could have a relationship with him again. I still have him, but maybe not for very long, because he is sick, and I may loose him.

Sorry to hear that. My Dad died when I was 12 due to a brain tumor. He was abusive to my Mom when they were together, but he was my Dad and I will always love him.
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Thu 04/23/09 01:16 AM





spend one more day with a loved one that passed away who would it be?

I would spend it with my Dad.
None. Why feel the same pain again when that day is over and they are taken away again?

One more day with my Dad...to tell him I love him and forgive him would be worth any amount of pain.
I can understand that. There's one person who died that i didn't get to clear things up with. For years it tore me up but i recently realised that we WOULD have patched things up, and let it go. Tell your father anyway. Go to his grave and speak to him.

I've only been there once. His grave is in PA. That's 23 hours from me. Talking to a grave is not going to help me.
Perhaps not but you can't talk to him so let's find another way for you to work through it :)
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