So I'm finally starting to have a little luck with the women. The thing is that all the women I'm having luck with are in their 40s. I'm 28. Most of the responses and interests I get from here are from women in their early to mid 40s and I am talking to one woman in real life who's 43 I think.

Now I'm not very picky at all about age as long as I can still be attracted to her. And I like the maturity of older women. But what is it they are looking for or see in me that the ladies around my age are/do not?

More than likely, youth.


I've dated a few older women, they like energy and the looks they get from people seeing them with someone much younger than they themselves are.


Although some are actually interested because of who you are.

It's a fun line to walk.

your youth, your looks, your personality, your zest, your stanima, it's a lot of things... good luck with them all.. ha ha

yeah, i know the feeling. Either guys over 40 or guys between 18 and 23 seem to wanna chat. I'm 27 and very mature, but over 40 is a lil much 4 me.

Yeah, is there something wrong with it?

Or just outside your comfort zone?


You look for people in your own age group or people outside of it?

...the COUGARS are on the hunt...

No, no, and either.

I hear older women are better in bed anyway. 10 years ago, women in their 40s looked like they're in their 40s. Now they look like they're in their early 30s, so they can still be physically very attractive.

And young girls look much older than they really are, but we're not gonna there.

But when it comes time to start a family, which I do wanna do one day, most of the women past 40 already have kids that are not much younger than me. Then women in my age group become a little more appealing.

funny you mention this...I am 28 soon 29 and I feel like tic toc I am getting old....and the only men who are interested in me are youngins which Yes I think are fun but dont seem to offer the qualities I seek for a relationship. I do not mean to stereotype I am just speaking from personal experience.

What I find more ironic is when I was younger I was seemed to Only attract older men. Go figure! LMAO