Topic: Why are men up here, if they have someone in their life
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Wed 04/22/09 08:41 AM
Ouch, sorry you got hurt. A jerk is a jerk no matter where you first contacted him. (Or her. At one time I was bi-curious, and I have seen how bad women really are. Women can be just as bad.) I wouldn't let him bother you. And venting to people who understand really helps. You need a friendly hug, and none of us is there to offer it, so put your right hand on your left shoulder, and your left hand on your right shoulder, and squeeze. Now you've been hugged via internet. Hope it helps.

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Wed 04/22/09 08:47 AM
drinks drinks drinks

somebody say beer...

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 04/22/09 08:49 AM
Dating sites are a longshot at best!

www.Falsehopes.com

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Wed 04/22/09 08:51 AM
most men are dogs thats why they refer to women as bitc....hes

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Wed 04/22/09 09:40 AM
Probably half of the people on these dating sites are in fact not single...

I just met someone recently. Does that mean I should delete my profile now?



No of course not. But I am honest and tell guys I have met someone I like a whole lot. I am not ready just yet to delete my profile, and yes I am also on other dating sites still too. If that makes me a jerk...ohwell
My intention is not to hurt anyone.

:smile:

I am just not sure yet if we are going to last. I am sure if he was on a dating site too he wouldn't be ready to delete his profile just yet either. It isn't that uncommon. I am not a liar about my status though so I feel it's ok in my situation to still be on here. At least for right now...

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Thu 04/23/09 05:04 PM

Ouch, sorry you got hurt. A jerk is a jerk no matter where you first contacted him. (Or her. At one time I was bi-curious, and I have seen how bad women really are. Women can be just as bad.) I wouldn't let him bother you. And venting to people who understand really helps. You need a friendly hug, and none of us is there to offer it, so put your right hand on your left shoulder, and your left hand on your right shoulder, and squeeze. Now you've been hugged via internet. Hope it helps.
I am okay now. I guess it was not all that serious. I hope noone take it the wrong or I offend anyone. I should have made it clear. There is nothing wrong being in a relationship and you are only up here in the forum only, but if you are up here trying to meet someone, that is different. This guy have change his profile again. I am dating right now, but I am only looking for conversation only(yeah right, he looking for a piece of azz). The woman he is talking about, stays in NJ( if that is true). Whatever these guys do is their business not mines, but it is my business when you trying to hook up with me and you know you have someone in your life.

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Thu 04/23/09 05:06 PM
Whether I am single or not....

I will post where I want... I won't however PRETEND I am single..when I'm not.


Discerning people can soon figure out who is, and who isn't telling the tuth...:wink:

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Thu 04/23/09 05:15 PM
Question, Did he come right out and say he wanted a piece of azz?

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Thu 04/23/09 05:42 PM
Don't worry you haven't stepped on any toes.
But I will have one of those beers.....drinker drinks drinker

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Thu 04/23/09 05:56 PM

im only here for the free beer ~drinker
what there is no beer ????? {damn}ohwell


What, they lied to you too eh?

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Thu 04/23/09 06:03 PM

Dating sites are a longshot at best!

www.Falsehopes.com



I bet www.falsehopes.com's "mutual matches" are not in the same league as Mingle's o mutual match presidente! laugh

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Thu 04/23/09 06:07 PM

Probably half of the people on these dating sites are in fact not single...

I just met someone recently. Does that mean I should delete my profile now?



No of course not. But I am honest and tell guys I have met someone I like a whole lot. I am not ready just yet to delete my profile, and yes I am also on other dating sites still too. If that makes me a jerk...ohwell
My intention is not to hurt anyone.

:smile:

I am just not sure yet if we are going to last. I am sure if he was on a dating site too he wouldn't be ready to delete his profile just yet either. It isn't that uncommon. I am not a liar about my status though so I feel it's ok in my situation to still be on here. At least for right now...


So you're going out with somebody, but you're still looking. Is that right?

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Thu 04/23/09 06:09 PM

Don't worry you haven't stepped on any toes.
But I will have one of those beers.....drinker drinks drinker


They don't have any. Didn't you read chevylovers post?

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Thu 04/23/09 06:10 PM
Liars are liars and cheats are cheats and some people have relationships that are open so they aren't really cheating...to each their own. Sometimes you find someone that just wants the "fantasy" of a relationship without the real meal deal...ya know?

It's frustrating but whether or not you're online or off...it happens. That's why love's a risk...still worth taking though ;)

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Thu 04/23/09 06:11 PM
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/219900

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Thu 04/23/09 06:18 PM


Whether I am single or not....

I will post where I want... I won't however PRETEND I am single..when I'm not.


Discerning people can soon figure out who is, and who isn't telling the tuth...:wink:
I did not say you can not post where you want and I feel like if anyone have a problem with my post than don't comment on it. If you have read my last post you would have seen that and I feel like anyone got mad then I have step on some toes. What are you saying, you are a man in real life. READ BEFORE YOU COMMENT!


You didn't step on my toes, at all... I made a general statement... I have friends that post here, who are partnered, or married...they are completely open about the fact they are married or partnered, and are here in the forums for social reasons...

Again, the more discerning people soon notice the discrepancies of people who are being less than truthful.

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Thu 04/23/09 06:32 PM
I am just glad all women don't think like you. I say if a person is grown he or she should be able play like they want to. What's right for you isn't always wrong for the next person. There are people that are ok with what's going on in these sites, but not me (not enough tail being gotten). Just because it didn't turn out right for you. Maybe you should look for a man elsewhere, you know it's like they say if you go get you a man/woman from a club, that's just the type of person he/she is and you are not going to be able to change that. Well the same is true for here, if you get a man/woman from a dating site then that's just the type of man you got (one that's going to advertise himself or herself)especially if he has lucked up and found you here. What make you think at the first sign of touble in your relationship, he or she is not going to get back in here and find someone else? If you want you a good desent man or woman, go where they hangout at, church or school would be a good start.

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Fri 04/24/09 02:58 AM

Liars are liars and cheats are cheats and some people have relationships that are open so they aren't really cheating...to each their own. Sometimes you find someone that just wants the "fantasy" of a relationship without the real meal deal...ya know?

It's frustrating but whether or not you're online or off...it happens. That's why love's a risk...still worth taking though ;)


Ditto that! But if I were married, I'd certainly be other places than a dating site.

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Fri 04/24/09 04:03 AM
Edited by SharpShooter10 on Fri 04/24/09 04:04 AM

I don't understand why some men come up here and they have someone in their life. I have exchange phone numbers with this guy and we started talking on the phone some. At first I was interset in him and then I have seen him on another dating site and he was lying. Today we got into it and he went and updated his profile. On his profile it says at the moment I am dating a dark skin sister then why are you on a dating site if you are dating someone. He ask me if I will get marry again and I say yes. He was like I am not trying to get marry. It not like I am going to ask him to marry me. Some people take stuff the wrong way. This man had two profile on the other dating site. It is like he think he is all that and he is not. When we talk on the phone, he always talking about his house. He alway cuts me off. He talking about he is looking for friends only. Yeah right, he looking for a booty call. If I had a man in my life, why I want to be up here and meet men. He said in his profile I am not insecure, who said he was insecure. I believe he is and he want everybody think he got it going on and he don't. The list goes on about this guy. Some men are full of s--t. Now I know why I am single. The more older men I meet, the more stupid they are.In away I was hurt, because I thought I meet someone. I am not looking for marriage now, but I do have enought good sense to know you have to become friends before lovers. You do have to let the person know where you stand. What is up with these people on these dating site?



Calm down darlin, take a deep breath, It'll be alright. It just be like that sometimes

Take the time to get to know folks in the forums, you never know who you will meet

You'll absolutely meet all kinds on here

flowerforyou drinker :smile:

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Fri 04/24/09 04:16 AM

im only here for the free beer ~drinker
what there is no beer ????? {damn}ohwell


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