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Topic: help please std test
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Tue 04/21/09 08:53 PM
help me out should i ask for a std test before jumping in bed with him
are people asking each other for this.
we agreed on condoms so I'm I just being paranoia


Mayhem_J's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:56 PM
You could ask him if he has had one lately. Then its up to you whether to trust what he tells you. If you have any doubt, then yeah, I'd ask him.

Do you have reasons to think that he might have something?

JustcallmeJohn's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:56 PM
Minor paranoia but it never killed anyone to get tested, you're not using condoms for oral or masturbatory actions i assume? it's possible to transmit just as easily.

samauribaby's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:57 PM
uhhh.....
do you suspect there may be an issue... down there?
maybe just give it a little inspection first... if there isnt anything obvious, just wrap it up and go! maybe double wrap it if you are that worried, but asking for an std test may upset him a little...

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:59 PM
If you're asking for one you should either have had one or offer to get one as well... Otherwise it's just plain rude and why would he succumb and why should he trust your word?

beautyfrompain's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:59 PM

help me out should i ask for a std test before jumping in bed with him
are people asking each other for this.
we agreed on condoms so I'm I just being paranoia


You can get herpes from kissing. You don't have to have sex.

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Tue 04/21/09 09:04 PM
Why not get a STD test together? Share in the info! Those who test together, live longer lives! JMO drinks

darkowl1's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:07 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Tue 04/21/09 09:10 PM
there's always the cellophane body bags......if you can put up with all the crinkling noises flowerforyou :banana:

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Tue 04/21/09 09:10 PM
no reason to worry
it been a while and i just needed some input on what other thought

writer_gurl's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:12 PM

Why not get a STD test together? Share in the info! Those who test together, live longer lives! JMO drinks

I agree with you there...Better being safe than sorry:thumbsup:

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:14 PM

uhhh.....
do you suspect there may be an issue... down there?
maybe just give it a little inspection first... if there isnt anything obvious, just wrap it up and go! maybe double wrap it if you are that worried, but asking for an std test may upset him a little...
uuummm IDK bout you but if I see something obvious, I skip the whole wrapping up part and I just go!! Home laugh noway noway none for me thanks.

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Tue 04/21/09 09:15 PM
Everyone should get tested!!!!!! And no one should take it personal if you ask them to, as long as you get tested too.

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:15 PM
If you're really worried about it, which in this day and age it should be a big concern, your life is at stake... then I would offer to go get one together with him. That way you will be be cleared (hopefully)

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Tue 04/21/09 09:19 PM
thank everyone you in put has helped

JustcallmeJohn's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:29 PM
Hey don't take the double wrap advice that will make the condoms burst even easier.

And think about it before doing it, you've obviously started the thought process, finish it.


And really if he's offended by getting tested tell him to piss off
and find someone else to have the pleasure with you.

Mayhem_J's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:39 PM
HOLY SHYT ITS JESUS!!!

I guess he is real!!

Where you been hiding out fool!!

JustcallmeJohn's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:41 PM
Jesus I told you once before no more water into wine, there are millions of people who dont have clean water and you take a filtered water and make pissy vino!

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:42 PM
noway noway noway wtf dude?? You need to get over to the general religion threads. It's messed up over there noway noway

JustcallmeJohn's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:43 PM
You should read the one about atheists and missionaries my recent activities are a hoot!

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/21/09 09:43 PM

First of all, you shouldn't be having pre marital sex. It is still a sin yanno. But if you're going to ignore my advice, which many of you do by the way, then check for any open sores and oozing puss. Those are usually the tell tale sign for some pretty funky stuff going on.flowerforyou


great thing about that is... it's only a sin to those who believe it is. :wink:

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