Topic: Where are all the good looking men at?
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Tue 04/21/09 07:35 AM


call me an ass, it had to be said.


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ass


:smile: rofl smile2

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 04/21/09 07:36 AM






Where are all the women that aren't as shallow as a mud puddle?




I second this...


Guess you both are attracted to the personality in a chick right a way. LMAO Please, men just can't stand to think that women also have eyes.


funny, but i know of fewer man that claim that personality is what matters than women.
bottom line is that physical attraction is important to both sexes.


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Physical attraction has to be important. I know I don't wanna be with anyone or sleeping with that person if I"m not attracted to her body

that's what i've been saying. i don't care how great a person she is, if she's as round as she is tall i don't want to lay next to her or have sex with her.

call me an ass, it had to be said.


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Word.

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/21/09 07:37 AM


call me an ass, it had to be said.


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ass


did someone call my name?


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enderra's photo
Tue 04/21/09 07:37 AM






Where are all the women that aren't as shallow as a mud puddle?




I second this...


Guess you both are attracted to the personality in a chick right a way. LMAO Please, men just can't stand to think that women also have eyes.


funny, but i know of fewer man that claim that personality is what matters than women.
bottom line is that physical attraction is important to both sexes.


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Physical attraction has to be important. I know I don't wanna be with anyone or sleeping with that person if I"m not attracted to her body

that's what i've been saying. i don't care how great a person she is, if she's as round as she is tall i don't want to lay next to her or have sex with her.

call me an ass, it had to be said.


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yeah, so why don't men think the same applies to them?

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/21/09 07:40 AM
Edited by 74Drew on Tue 04/21/09 07:46 AM







Where are all the women that aren't as shallow as a mud puddle?




I second this...


Guess you both are attracted to the personality in a chick right a way. LMAO Please, men just can't stand to think that women also have eyes.


funny, but i know of fewer man that claim that personality is what matters than women.
bottom line is that physical attraction is important to both sexes.


. . .


Physical attraction has to be important. I know I don't wanna be with anyone or sleeping with that person if I"m not attracted to her body

that's what i've been saying. i don't care how great a person she is, if she's as round as she is tall i don't want to lay next to her or have sex with her.

call me an ass, it had to be said.


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yeah, so why don't men think the same applies to them?

because we're not the ones running around preaching that personality is the most important feature.
and because i hear women say all the time that they don't mind a guy who's a little big.
when asked what they look for in a man, women usually say humor, confidence, personality. often they don't even mention looks. of if it's brought up they shrug it off like it doesn't really matter.
we all know it matters. we know it because we can see you turn your head around like the girl in the exorcist whenever a guy with a six pack goes by.



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7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/21/09 07:43 AM
isnt objectifying fun?

FreeToB's photo
Tue 04/21/09 07:57 AM



Where are all the women that aren't as shallow as a mud puddle?




I second this...


Guess you both are attracted to the personality in a chick right a way. LMAO Please, men just can't stand to think that women also have eyes.


haha Actually I like smart girls. But you're right...I sure do appreciate beauty. Making love, I don't care if she can state the gravitational principles of equivalence while screaming my name. (Oops, or some handsome guys name). :tongue:

enderra's photo
Tue 04/21/09 07:58 AM








Where are all the women that aren't as shallow as a mud puddle?




I second this...


Guess you both are attracted to the personality in a chick right a way. LMAO Please, men just can't stand to think that women also have eyes.


funny, but i know of fewer man that claim that personality is what matters than women.
bottom line is that physical attraction is important to both sexes.


. . .


Physical attraction has to be important. I know I don't wanna be with anyone or sleeping with that person if I"m not attracted to her body

that's what i've been saying. i don't care how great a person she is, if she's as round as she is tall i don't want to lay next to her or have sex with her.

call me an ass, it had to be said.


. . .

yeah, so why don't men think the same applies to them?

because we're not the ones running around preaching that personality is the most important feature.
and because i hear women say all the time that they don't mind a guy who's a little big.
when asked what they look for in a man, women usually say humor, confidence, personality. often they don't even mention looks. of if it's brought up they shrug it off like it doesn't really matter.
we all know it matters. we know it because we can see you turn your head around like the girl in the exorcist whenever a guy with a six pack goes by.



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Ok, this is it, the real deal. At the end of the day those other things do matter more to us, but what i am talking about here is making some sort of an effort to look your best. I personally don't go for pretty boys with six packs. I am a retired dancer and I also train athletes so I have been, shall we say exposed to that.

I really don't care what the man is wearing as long as it is neat and clean. Why on earth would I want to go out with someone who is wearing an old baseball cap advertising a feed store and a tee shirt or even a button down shirt that is wrinkled with stains on it?

All that is to say, that when a beer belly guy with some old work shirt steps to me online or in RL I push delete.

BeckyPick's photo
Tue 04/21/09 07:59 AM
<<<<<<<------- :heart: Not a mud puddle!!

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Tue 04/21/09 08:07 AM
2 not a mud puddles now!
(((Becky)))waving

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:08 AM



Ok, this is it, the real deal. At the end of the day those other things do matter more to us, but what i am talking about here is making some sort of an effort to look your best. I personally don't go for pretty boys with six packs. I am a retired dancer and I also train athletes so I have been, shall we say exposed to that.

I really don't care what the man is wearing as long as it is neat and clean. Why on earth would I want to go out with someone who is wearing an old baseball cap advertising a feed store and a tee shirt or even a button down shirt that is wrinkled with stains on it?

All that is to say, that when a beer belly guy with some old work shirt steps to me online or in RL I push delete.

i get that. people should put their best foot forward.


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enderra's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:10 AM




Ok, this is it, the real deal. At the end of the day those other things do matter more to us, but what i am talking about here is making some sort of an effort to look your best. I personally don't go for pretty boys with six packs. I am a retired dancer and I also train athletes so I have been, shall we say exposed to that.

I really don't care what the man is wearing as long as it is neat and clean. Why on earth would I want to go out with someone who is wearing an old baseball cap advertising a feed store and a tee shirt or even a button down shirt that is wrinkled with stains on it?

All that is to say, that when a beer belly guy with some old work shirt steps to me online or in RL I push delete.

i get that. people should put their best foot forward.


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You would think that was a no brainer!

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:10 AM
i was told in college that i was more shallow than a drop of water.
it isn't true by the way.


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74Drew's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:11 AM





Ok, this is it, the real deal. At the end of the day those other things do matter more to us, but what i am talking about here is making some sort of an effort to look your best. I personally don't go for pretty boys with six packs. I am a retired dancer and I also train athletes so I have been, shall we say exposed to that.

I really don't care what the man is wearing as long as it is neat and clean. Why on earth would I want to go out with someone who is wearing an old baseball cap advertising a feed store and a tee shirt or even a button down shirt that is wrinkled with stains on it?

All that is to say, that when a beer belly guy with some old work shirt steps to me online or in RL I push delete.

i get that. people should put their best foot forward.


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You would think that was a no brainer!

one would hope but it's not always so.


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FreeToB's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:11 AM
I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world but I am strong, healthy and dress well enough to not be picked up for being a bum.

But oddly enough, the women who say Im very handsome all have known me for a good while. I guess I look better the better you know me. I can live with that.

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:15 AM

I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world but I am strong, healthy and dress well enough to not be picked up for being a bum.

But oddly enough, the women who say Im very handsome all have known me for a good while. I guess I look better the better you know me. I can live with that.

i get complimented a lot on here. not so much IRL. maybe the women here are more "accepting".


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TattooedDude81's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:31 AM


I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world but I am strong, healthy and dress well enough to not be picked up for being a bum.

But oddly enough, the women who say Im very handsome all have known me for a good while. I guess I look better the better you know me. I can live with that.

i get complimented a lot on here. not so much IRL. maybe the women here are more "accepting".


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I think it's because online it's so much easier to tell someone something that's on your mind. I hardly ever get compliments in real life but online I get them almost everyday from multiple people.

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:41 AM
Drew, it's because you're one of the few men on here with a profile pic of yourself dressed in a suit.

Very natty, I might add.

I'd do it myself, but I'm sure nobody cares if I'm wearing a tux or not.

enderra's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:53 AM

Drew, it's because you're one of the few men on here with a profile pic of yourself dressed in a suit.

Very natty, I might add.

I'd do it myself, but I'm sure nobody cares if I'm wearing a tux or not.



It would be worth a try to see what type of girly response you get.


TBRich's photo
Tue 04/21/09 08:56 AM
I got way more response to my old clown pic, than in this monkey suit.