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Topic: Ladies, please rate.
MelodyGirl's photo
Thu 04/16/09 10:54 PM

Never married at 53?
You are surely set in your ways by now.


So, are you saying that someone who is not married (at 48, 53, 57, etc) an 'undateable' person?

I've never been married and probably won't -- unless I meet a guy that compliments me and visa-versa -- but I think that is a GOOD thing.

I don't want a trail of bad marriages, relationships, etc. I'm proud that I either had a few functional relationships that just fizzled or that I was smart enough to bail out on disfunctional dates that never became relationships.

Since when is baggage supposed to make someone more 'dateable'?

I'm just curious, Beauty. I'm don't mean to grill you like a cheeseburger! flowerforyou

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Fri 04/17/09 01:22 AM


Never married at 53?
You are surely set in your ways by now.


So, are you saying that someone who is not married (at 48, 53, 57, etc) an 'undateable' person?

I've never been married and probably won't -- unless I meet a guy that compliments me and visa-versa -- but I think that is a GOOD thing.

I don't want a trail of bad marriages, relationships, etc. I'm proud that I either had a few functional relationships that just fizzled or that I was smart enough to bail out on disfunctional dates that never became relationships.

Since when is baggage supposed to make someone more 'dateable'?

I'm just curious, Beauty. I'm don't mean to grill you like a cheeseburger! flowerforyou




Baggage is like the "Previous Employers" section of a resume. If you have too many employers, then it shows you can't keep a job. If you have a few employers, it means you have some experience (but you have to look whether they were working at macdonalds or macdonald douglas and for how long they could keep that job for?), no baggage means no real experience.

OneMind's photo
Fri 04/17/09 01:45 AM



Never married at 53?
You are surely set in your ways by now.


So, are you saying that someone who is not married (at 48, 53, 57, etc) an 'undateable' person?

I've never been married and probably won't -- unless I meet a guy that compliments me and visa-versa -- but I think that is a GOOD thing.

I don't want a trail of bad marriages, relationships, etc. I'm proud that I either had a few functional relationships that just fizzled or that I was smart enough to bail out on disfunctional dates that never became relationships.

Since when is baggage supposed to make someone more 'dateable'?

I'm just curious, Beauty. I'm don't mean to grill you like a cheeseburger! flowerforyou




Baggage is like the "Previous Employers" section of a resume. If you have too many employers, then it shows you can't keep a job. If you have a few employers, it means you have some experience (but you have to look whether they were working at macdonalds or macdonald douglas and for how long they could keep that job for?), no baggage means no real experience.


Baggage? BAGGAGE?!? We don need no steenking baggage!!

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 04/17/09 04:27 AM
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Never married at 53?
You are surely set in your ways by now.


So, are you saying that someone who is not married (at 48, 53, 57, etc) an 'undateable' person?

I've never been married and probably won't -- unless I meet a guy that compliments me and visa-versa -- but I think that is a GOOD thing.

I don't want a trail of bad marriages, relationships, etc. I'm proud that I either had a few functional relationships that just fizzled or that I was smart enough to bail out on disfunctional dates that never became relationships.

Since when is baggage supposed to make someone more 'dateable'?

I'm just curious, Beauty. I'm don't mean to grill you like a cheeseburger! flowerforyou

No, wasn't saying that at all. It's a good thing! I wish I had been wiser. I don't mind being grilled :wink:

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 04/17/09 11:03 AM



Never married at 53?
You are surely set in your ways by now.


So, are you saying that someone who is not married (at 48, 53, 57, etc) an 'undateable' person?

I've never been married and probably won't -- unless I meet a guy that compliments me and visa-versa -- but I think that is a GOOD thing.

I don't want a trail of bad marriages, relationships, etc. I'm proud that I either had a few functional relationships that just fizzled or that I was smart enough to bail out on disfunctional dates that never became relationships.

Since when is baggage supposed to make someone more 'dateable'?

I'm just curious, Beauty. I'm don't mean to grill you like a cheeseburger! flowerforyou




Baggage is like the "Previous Employers" section of a resume. If you have too many employers, then it shows you can't keep a job. If you have a few employers, it means you have some experience (but you have to look whether they were working at macdonalds or macdonald douglas and for how long they could keep that job for?), no baggage means no real experience.


As always, J, I agree with you. Always look for the happy medium! :thumbsup:

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