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How many years after ones souse gos to heaven should they wait to start dating ?
(We all know every one grieves different) |
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Wait until you don't need to anymore.
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It took my best friend 10 years.......she was so sad!! and it was really hard for me to watch her pining for her dead husband......
But now she has found the love of her life and living with him soooooooo I guess there is life after death??? |
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Wait until you don't need to anymore. Aye. |
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When you feel ready. Would they want you to be alone? No reason to wait unless you just can't move on yet. Doesn't matter what anyone thinks but you in that situation.
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As long as it takes. If you try dating before you're ready it will be a disaster. There's no real right or wrong answer to this.
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How longs it been jimmy???
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Some people never date again... take my grandparents for example. she never dated or married again because she was so in love with her husband that she felt if she married again, she wouldn't "join him on the other side"
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Wait until you don't need to anymore. Then when I feel I'm ready the dreams start again and I'm back at the beging. Almost four years now not trying to wine I just have to get the sh....t out in order to stay ahead of the pain sorry to you all. |
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Me, I wouldn't remarry after having found the woman that Honestly has loved me and Blessed me with sharing our lives together until G-d calls us home. Alot of people do not beleive in marriage existing in Heaven, but I do. I'd wait my whole life to see her again and to be reunited with her.
However, neither G-d nor the spouse would want to see you hurt being lonely. When you're ready, you will know. Just don't bring the grief into a relationship, so that the relationship you go into will flourish and you both will be happy. The next spouse will have deserved that just as much as the first. |
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It took my best friend 10 years.......she was so sad!! and it was really hard for me to watch her pining for her dead husband...... But now she has found the love of her life and living with him soooooooo I guess there is life after death??? |
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When you feel ready. Would they want you to be alone? No reason to wait unless you just can't move on yet. Doesn't matter what anyone thinks but you in that situation. |
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Some people never date again... take my grandparents for example. she never dated or married again because she was so in love with her husband that she felt if she married again, she wouldn't "join him on the other side" |
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Me, I wouldn't remarry after having found the woman that Honestly has loved me and Blessed me with sharing our lives together until G-d calls us home. Alot of people do not beleive in marriage existing in Heaven, but I do. I'd wait my whole life to see her again and to be reunited with her. However, neither G-d nor the spouse would want to see you hurt being lonely. When you're ready, you will know. Just don't bring the grief into a relationship, so that the relationship you go into will flourish and you both will be happy. The next spouse will have deserved that just as much as the first. |
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My wife would want me to be happy. I can imagine that she smiles when she thinks about me, and the love I have found.
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Edited by
Jimmy59
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Wed 04/15/09 12:19 AM
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My wife would want me to be happy. I can imagine that she smiles when she thinks about me, and the love I have found. |
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Depends on ones definition of dating!
In all fairness to yourself and another? When ones heart can once again be open to allow another in. |
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Me, I wouldn't remarry after having found the woman that Honestly has loved me and Blessed me with sharing our lives together until G-d calls us home. Alot of people do not beleive in marriage existing in Heaven, but I do. I'd wait my whole life to see her again and to be reunited with her. However, neither G-d nor the spouse would want to see you hurt being lonely. When you're ready, you will know. Just don't bring the grief into a relationship, so that the relationship you go into will flourish and you both will be happy. The next spouse will have deserved that just as much as the first. |
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Depends on ones definition of dating! In all fairness to yourself and another? When ones heart can once again be open to allow another in. |
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Edited by
Jimmy59
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Wed 04/15/09 12:22 AM
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This is helping |
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