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Topic: men in love
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Mon 04/13/09 10:37 PM
in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?

nvkikigirl's photo
Mon 04/13/09 10:43 PM

in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?



from what i have seen, its women..

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 04/13/09 10:45 PM

in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?


From experience men usually use the word first. The word and the emotion are two entirely different things though. I've fallen in love for the first time (I figure it to be love because it is an intense feeling I've never felt before)...and my girlfriend seems to be along the same lines. I like it as opposed to my initial thinking that love is just a fairy tell, well, I guess that bit me in the ass.

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Mon 04/13/09 10:48 PM

in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?


Maybe. Good question. Men are just better at hiding it :tongue:

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Mon 04/13/09 10:50 PM
Watch the man's actions, you'll know it before he says it.

Queene123's photo
Mon 04/13/09 10:51 PM
i would have to say it would be the men..
my ex hubby told me he loved me a week after we got together and was talking about marriage soon after that.

tessa68's photo
Mon 04/13/09 10:52 PM

Watch the man's actions, you'll know it before he says it.


- i agree with you, "action speaks louder than words"

LordCole's photo
Mon 04/13/09 10:55 PM
Ouch... I told my Daughter that when a boy tells her that he loves her, he is lying. He only wants "more than kisses"... now that She is older She knows what I mean.

Her mother bonked me on the head the day I told her that too.

imsingle951's photo
Tue 04/14/09 06:05 AM
I tend to fall inlive easy. probly due to being alone and lonely. something I know I must work on

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Tue 04/14/09 06:10 AM


in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?


From experience men usually use the word first. The word and the emotion are two entirely different things though. I've fallen in love for the first time (I figure it to be love because it is an intense feeling I've never felt before)...and my girlfriend seems to be along the same lines. I like it as opposed to my initial thinking that love is just a fairy tell, well, I guess that bit me in the ass.



Agreed...I've never used the word first...

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/14/09 06:11 AM
i avoid falling in love as if it were an open manhole. every time i've fallen it's been for someone who didn't return the feeling. now i just steer clear.



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Tue 04/14/09 06:14 AM

i avoid falling in love as if it were an open manhole. every time i've fallen it's been for someone who didn't return the feeling. now i just steer clear.



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Interesting nomenclature...I have a friend who calls himself a "manhole" because he feels so empty inside...

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/14/09 06:15 AM


i avoid falling in love as if it were an open manhole. every time i've fallen it's been for someone who didn't return the feeling. now i just steer clear.



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Interesting nomenclature...I have a friend who calls himself a "manhole" because he feels so empty inside...

that's pretty rough.


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Tue 04/14/09 06:25 AM
True dat, Drew...but you can't expect anyone else to fill you up...

TBRich's photo
Tue 04/14/09 06:27 AM



in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?


From experience men usually use the word first. The word and the emotion are two entirely different things though. I've fallen in love for the first time (I figure it to be love because it is an intense feeling I've never felt before)...and my girlfriend seems to be along the same lines. I like it as opposed to my initial thinking that love is just a fairy tell, well, I guess that bit me in the ass.



Agreed...I've never used the word first...


Oh, but you will and soon...

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Tue 04/14/09 06:29 AM

in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?


I don't have any empirical evidence to indicate wheter or not anyone falls in love more easily and faster than I do. My best guess is that it would be difficult to determine because people have such widely divergent views on what constitutes "love" in the first place. From what I've experienced, women "fall in love" when they make the determination that "Here is someone I can change/fix" which does not correspond to my own definition of the term at all.


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Tue 04/14/09 06:31 AM

in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?


Well I've seen it run in both ways.
I've been in a relationship where the girl I was dating said she loved me withing a few weeks of us dating.
I dated a guy who said he loved me within two or three days of dating me...


Honestly, I don't believe they were really "in love"
Real, true love takes time and you have to develop a deep and personal connection with your mate before you can truly understand what you feel. These two, as I theorize, are vampires; in the sense that they leech off the emotions of someone else. Neither one of those two people were emotionally stable to support themselves, so the seek dependence and comfort from a relationship. Since they can't handle being a lone, they get clingy and attached really fast to the other person, and mimic the feelings of love, when in fact they don't really love you. They just need you more as an emotional support... and in the end you get screwed.


When it comes to real love...
I'm not sure... men may fall faster
Maybe they don't
You can't always go with what you think
Sometimes it's always different.

trgirl's photo
Tue 04/14/09 06:41 AM


in your experience... do men fall in love more easily and faster than women do?


From experience men usually use the word first. The word and the emotion are two entirely different things though. I've fallen in love for the first time (I figure it to be love because it is an intense feeling I've never felt before)...and my girlfriend seems to be along the same lines. I like it as opposed to my initial thinking that love is just a fairy tell, well, I guess that bit me in the ass.


did it hurt when it bit?

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:20 AM
I use to fall in love easy..........not anymore

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:21 AM

True dat, Drew...but you can't expect anyone else to fill you up...


but you can expect them to tear you down.



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