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Topic: umm... what would you do?
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Sun 04/12/09 10:19 PM
Edited by JasmineInglewood on Sun 04/12/09 10:20 PM
if you became friends with the significant other of one of your close friends.... and (s)he tells you that (s)he is attracted to you?

do you tell your friend?

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Sun 04/12/09 10:20 PM
No, and step back away from the situation.

Want2B5ft's photo
Sun 04/12/09 10:21 PM
noway noway noway RUN noway noway noway

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 04/12/09 10:22 PM
I'd get out of the situation real quick.. Friendships are bound by honor unless you no longer want that friendship...

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Sun 04/12/09 10:22 PM
Edited by In_OC on Sun 04/12/09 10:22 PM
ugh! sounds like a time bomb there...I would ignore the comments and make sure I draw the line to avoid any more confusion.


galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/12/09 10:24 PM
Sounds like potential trouble, Jas...
But life and love are both a gamble. Do what feels right - just be wary of potential outcomes either way.

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Sun 04/12/09 10:24 PM
homies before honeys man


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Sun 04/12/09 10:24 PM
Edited by JasmineInglewood on Sun 04/12/09 10:26 PM

No, and step back away from the situation.


shouldn't the friend know that (s)he is in love with a creep?

edit* - ok "creep" is a strong word. he's actually quite nice... but still, i would want to know if my boyfriend was making moves on my friends if i was her... ohwell

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Sun 04/12/09 10:25 PM


No, and step back away from the situation.


shouldn't the friend know that (s)he is in love with a creep?


They will find out soon enough without my help.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 04/12/09 10:26 PM
Behead them and bury the bodies under my stoop, add the heads to my collection.smokin

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/12/09 10:27 PM

Behead them and bury the bodies under my stoop, add the heads to my collection.smokin


Well at least now I know where to put the bodies (and heads!)

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sun 04/12/09 10:29 PM


Behead them and bury the bodies under my stoop, add the heads to my collection.smokin


Well at least now I know where to put the bodies (and heads!)


laugh bigsmile :thumbsup:

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Sun 04/12/09 10:31 PM
I tell ya what I am going to do...............


Nite All.:wink:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 04/12/09 10:31 PM

homies before honeys man




As in "bro's before ho's" NOT...

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Sun 04/12/09 10:32 PM


.. if indeed you are good friends you might tell her,and if she didnt believe you,you might talk her into you both setting him up,like have her come over and get in a closet,or have your cell phone on and her listen in on the conversations..or keep quiet and hope she catches him ..just a few ideas..either way its a precarious position youre in...good luk

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Sun 04/12/09 10:32 PM

I tell ya what I am going to do...............


Nite All.:wink:


'night mich waving

thanks for the advice

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Sun 04/12/09 10:41 PM

if you became friends with the significant other of one of your close friends.... and (s)he tells you that (s)he is attracted to you?

do you tell your friend?
I had to go and put my helmet on...so, I could tell you to:
"Go put your helmet on, and RUN like hell...the other way"!slaphead surprised shocked

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Sun 04/12/09 10:47 PM


if you became friends with the significant other of one of your close friends.... and (s)he tells you that (s)he is attracted to you?

do you tell your friend?
I had to go and put my helmet on...so, I could tell you to:
"Go put your helmet on, and RUN like hell...the other way"!slaphead surprised shocked


mehhh

oh alright.

but the distancing part has happened already. just wondering if that's enough, because the friend is still with the guy...

p.s. - helmet is firmly back in place as well :tongue:

AndyBgood's photo
Sun 04/12/09 10:48 PM
That is scandalous ground you are having to ask about!!!!


Say "back off or I will have to shrink you!" and point a shrink gun at him. (Oh sorry, that is what Reducto would do...)


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Sun 04/12/09 10:52 PM



if you became friends with the significant other of one of your close friends.... and (s)he tells you that (s)he is attracted to you?

do you tell your friend?
I had to go and put my helmet on...so, I could tell you to:
"Go put your helmet on, and RUN like hell...the other way"!slaphead surprised shocked


mehhh

oh alright.

but the distancing part has happened already. just wondering if that's enough, because the friend is still with the guy...

p.s. - helmet is firmly back in place as well :tongue:


Good...I now feel your more protected!!

I think if you look at it from the friends point...if you were to tell...I feel as if they(your friend) would first go through a denial stage, at which time your friendship could be in jeopardy.

I would just tell the other person, "No Way, I don't treat friends that way"!

This is just my opinion. Good luck with your decision making. drinks

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